How to know it's SO-OCD

I've never been turned on by a woman. I've admired a beautiful woman but more so in ways I wish I looked that or a 'good for her' never anything sexual. My SO-OCD is back quite strongly at the moment and it's causing panic in me because I have no crush on any males at all and I've been single by choice for so long it's making me worry what if its because I'm really secretly gay or bi. I even get scared to test mentally thought of being a woman incase I like it. I've done this test before and came to conclusion it wasn't for me but now it's back again. I even used to watch WLW p-orn but not like the close ups it was more because it was less peeness on face.

Username: blazedblazed

User type: OCD Conqueror

Date posted: 40w ago

You don’t have to accept that youre gay or bi, but accept that you don’t know the answer to your sexual orientation right now and that’s okay. It’s good that you’re not checking/testing your attraction bc as you probably know, it’s a compulsion. Keep resisting your compulsions and refrain from trying to figure out what the thoughts mean. It gets worse before it gets better but you will get through it. You got this.

Username: BobbyIX32BobbyIX32

Date posted: 40w ago

it sounds like you're going through a really tough time with your so-ocd flaring up. 😔 it's super challenging when your mind is filled with these intrusive thoughts that don't align with how you feel deep down. i'm dealing with a different ocd theme myself, so i totally get how exhausting and confusing it can be. one thing that's been a game-changer for me is this app called "unstuck ocd therapy tools." it was recommended by my local ocd support group, and it offers ai-personalized guidance and exercises right when you need them. also, the ocd stories podcast has been super helpful for me to feel less alone and understand ocd on a deeper level. it might give you some comfort and new insights as well. 🌟

Username: NeytiriNeytiri

Date posted: 39w ago

I have watched lesbian porn too and I am scared it’s a proof that I am lesbian :-(

Username: HELO90

Date posted: 39w ago

Gay/Bi OCD

I honestly do not have a desire to be sxeual with a woman (I am a woman) nor do I see myself in a relationship with a woman romantically but since this theme has popped up again I panic around pretty women. What if me acknowledging she is pretty or has a nice figure means I want to have sex with her. I don't.

Username: Weird berry

Date posted: 33w ago

SO-OCD HELP

Let me start by saying that I am not diagnosed but I suspect I have OCD. I came out as a lesbian girl 6 years ago but lately I have very often intrusive sexual thoughts about men. These thoughts make me feel disgusted, annoyed, anxious and uncomfortable but I can't help but check every time I can whether I'm attracted or not. I don't want to get married to a man, I don't want to have sex with men or even have any kind of relationship but at the slightest trigger I start to think I'm hiding something. I know everyone has noticed that I'm slowly shutting down, I'm no longer the same but I can't say what's going on in my head. Could it be OCD? and how do I stop thinking about it?

Username: savvyp

Date posted: 30w ago

SO OCD

Hey guys! So I’m suffering with this subtype. I feel like I developed a crush on someone of the same sex and I have always identified as a straight woman. I’ve always been attracted to men. I feel like I get the feelings of a crush but it’s always followed by intense anxiety. “What if this crush is real?” “Am I now Bi?” I just can’t shake the feeling that the feelings are real and I need to accept them but then what if it’s false attraction or OCD? “What if I’m in denial?” I’m in a relationship with a man who I really love and want to be with. I only want feelings for him. I don’t want to like women or be attracted to a woman. What do I do?

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