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Bad days.
Does anyone else’s OCD randomly get worse on a random day and all you can really do is just try to survive the day? If so, does anyone have any healthy ways of dealing with this?
Does anyone else’s OCD randomly get worse on a random day and all you can really do is just try to survive the day? If so, does anyone have any healthy ways of dealing with this?
At a minimum, I acknowledge the experience is so incredibly frustrating, to feel like your day is being dictated to you. But I guess that's part of OCD - realizing the feelings and your reaction to them can be separated and you choose your response.
Yes, just like today. My current strategy is to try and acknowledge the way I react to my random bad days has a meaningful impact on how the day goes - I usually get mad that something out my control has dictated how my day is going to go. I've come to find that if I don't fight it, I think my brain accepts this as a sign the underlying concern isn't actually a concern and turns the volume down.
Yes I relate to this so much it’s so draining and some days it’s so much harder to fight the ocd x
Watching an episode of a funny tv show sometimes helps me 😊
i totally get where you're coming from. those random bad days can feel like you're just trying to keep your head above water. it's tough, but you're not alone in this. 💪 by the way, have you heard about this new AI-powered OCD therapy tool called 'unstuck?' when i was going through similar rough patches, my NOCD therapist recommended 'unstuck' to me (unstuckmyOCD.com/try), and it was a game-changer. i think it'll be especially helpful for you because it offers personalized step-by-step support for those unpredictable tough days, just like having an OCD therapist in your pocket. i hate when people promote stuff, but i really think it can help you because it's changed my life. lmk if you have Qs or just want to talk more! <3
my OCD is doing what it does best and it’s randomly selecting themes. Once I’m not scared or react to one it bounces to another. And then i temporarily forget all of my coping skills for that theme. Rn it’s fixating on the time I had a panic attack and it’s trying to make me have one again
The past month or so I have been in and out of OCD spirals. I’ll have a couple days of spiraling and then a couple days of being better. Then a couple days spiraling and then a couple days doing better. Today is one of those days where I can feel the anxiety under the surface and where I am monitoring it to see/keep it in check. Yesterday I was good, I had good dialogue in my mind, I was content with making mistakes in the past, but being a better human and person these days going forward. I can feel the ebb and flow of it today where the anxiety spikes, my internal dialogue say “am I going to freak out”, “confess this”, “say that”, “don’t say that”, “I’m a bad person”, “I’m a good person that is learning and growing every day” etc etc. Then the anxiety comes down, my mind feels clearer, less noisy and less physical feeling, and I feel like I don’t care about the OCD and me as much. Just been feeling the ebbs and flows of OCD over the course of months and days, and even within the day itself.
I am feeling sad and frustrated today with myself. I have been in therapy for two months and had my meds upped two months ago too. However, my job is extremely stressful and I have been dealing with a set back. I keep getting told to set boundaries or even quit but financially I can't and can't afford to lose my medical insurance. Anyone have any tips on how to deal when stress makes the OCD worse?
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