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I also wanted to add: a support system is a must! Even if it’s just ppl in this app! Someone who understands what intrusive thoughts are. I’m so lucky I had my husband who supports me through this and understands that I might even have a silly thought about him. Whether it’s a therapist, friend, parent, sibling find someone who cares and can be there to help you through the erp! Even just to rub your back and tell you they won’t reassure you (as that’s part of recovery) or just to say they understand but don’t give up!
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Rambling guy: no prob ... harm ocd was my worst I would hide knives, it center Ed around hurting ppl I loved and myself (even though I am a very gentle person and have never wanted to hurt myself) also I had some existential ocd thoughts about life feeling meaningless (but different from depression) as well as an overall feeling that things weren’t “right” .... I had some ocd around thinking I was always dying, like if a bug bit me I would panic thinking it was the worst case scenario, ( I also have generalized anxiety disorder so that is also part of that ) and I also had confession ocd where I had the urge to confess things or urge to act out something in appropriate. My brain would tell me to walk away or leave because I urged to scream out something inappropriate and lastly I also had ocd around thinking I was crazy. So a lot of things at once and mainly they were intrusive thoughts. Hope that helps?
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Yay!!! I am so happy to hear this! It makes me believe that one day I too will see the light at the end of the tunnel. I currently am in the depths of the dark cave, but at least now I am moving and feeling my way along, where before I kinda just sat there moping. Thank you for sharing this and your words. They come at a time that is much needed.
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Infinite1010: I’m glad that this helped, there is a light at the end just don’t give up. Everyday if u keep up with the erp and keep up with being gentle to yourself it does get easier... it takes time and I know how hard it can be but there is hope! We tend to freak out thinking that ocd is a very bad mental disorder but lots of studies show it’s actually one of the better ones to treat and recover from! Keep that in mind! :) good luck with your journey! ....
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@deemajical I completely agree with everything ? This whole post gives me hope, as one of the major OCD's I deal with is Pure O. It's so wonderful to see people recover from it, because at times it does seem impossible, but I keep holding on to the hope, that one day, I will be free?
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If you don’t mind me asking, what was your obsession around?
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P.s. I am going to screenshot this because it's just so powerful?
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scarlettA: I know now bad the fears can get, they can feel like they consume every aspect of your life, the best thing to do is start small and build your tools against the ocd up! Starting by reminding yourself that ocd is a liar! Because it is, you just have to tell ur brain that enough times until your brain starts to believe it! I highly recommend erp either find info online and start practicing or if you can a therapist because it will help you recover and you will! Best of luck!
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Wow what a powerful story. Thank you for sharing as I share the same themes. I’m about 5 weeks into erp after diagnosis and it’s getting better. Thanks for sharing your story! It’s nice to hear I’m not alone
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Are you feeling better still??
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It’s been 4 years. 4 years since I spiralled into a world controlled by rituals of 4, it started as 2, then 3, then 4 - my safe number. The amount of times I wash my hands after touching something dirty and how many repeats it takes until I feel ‘clean’, the amount of taps I make when closing doors to make sure I don’t ‘die’, the amount of times I rinse cutlery and plates before eating off them, the amount of times I disinfect things. My OCD subtype is contamination and I know 2020 lockdowns and the pandemic caused it to spiral but what started as a small ritual quickly became bigger until I no longer remembered what my life was like without the obsessive thoughts of germs and contamination. Could that person be ill? What if I go outside to the shops and someone makes me sick? You can’t answer the door to get that package from the delivery driver because he might make you sick, oh you can’t put the shopping away without disinfecting it first - what if someone has coughed on it? ‘I’ve got to wear gloves to do that’ I can’t, I can’t, I can’t. For 4 years I’ve lived like this, the ‘I don’t want to touch that’ or ‘I can’t go to this place because I don’t want to get ill and die’ ‘can you go do that for me as I don’t think I can right now’ - I know my OCD is irrational, I know the likelihood of those things actually happening are slim to none and I know my OCD stems from a need of control in my life because for so many years I felt like everything in my life was out of my control. But no matter how much I know of how many books I read, how many mindful practices I do the panic I feel after being ‘exposed’ or before exposing myself to a trigger is horrible. I’ve avoided and avoided and avoided to the point where something small now seems and feels like an impossible mountain to climb. It often feels like there isn’t light at the end of the tunnel on the dark days, when I know there is, it’s just going to take some time. Despite this on the outside to those not in my circle my life is a whole picture perfect painting. I run my own business, have a nice car, a nice house, a happy relationship and the of best friends and I’m so grateful for all those things but the reality is much different - behind closed doors and hidden in the closest is the OCD monster. I’ve decided now, after 4 years it’s time to change. I’m breaking the cycle and starting anew. The irony that 4 is my safe number too and it’s been 4 years since things started to get dark. I’m ready to lose control and find myself again. Why am I writing this? Honestly, I really don’t know. I found this app recently and hope it can be a help for my ERP practices I’ve been practicing on my own and it’s actually the first time I’ve ever openly posted or spoken about my OCD to date. For years I have lived with a huge amount of shame and embarrassment, hiding my issues from everyone - even my closest friends have no idea how much it impacts my day to day. I’ve felt shame as I can’t control my own mind despite knowing the thoughts are irrational and the rituals only provide temporary relief but each day again and again the safety blanket of the rituals wraps me up and takes over. The only person who truly knows how much it affects me is my partner, who has been by my side through it all, he’s burnt out and has seen first hand the impact it has had on me, my life and my happiness. I’ve sheltered him as much as I can, but I’m sure those who are in relationships with OCD can relate to the burnout their partner feels day in day out. So that’s my story, I hope those going through similar can take comfort in this and know they aren’t alone in it all as my OCD has made me feel so incredibly lonely, isolated and empty for 4 years too long. It feels freeing to finally share my monster and I hope I can connect with others who are on a similar journey to me. The biggest thing I want to be able to do again? I want to be able to hug my loved ones without feeling triggered, I want to go outside and enjoy life without worry, I want to live again. This app has made me feel seen for the first time in a long time and reading your stories, your experiences and how you’re coping is comforting, encouraging and makes me feel less alone ❤️ thank you for reading x
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