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How do you guys avoid toxic people? Any advice at all would be much appreciated.
How do you guys avoid toxic people? Any advice at all would be much appreciated.
I’d say just do your own thing. Yes they’re present but just don’t engage with them. Also, surround yourself with positive people and change the environment if you can. As in, don’t be in the same space as they are.
Thank you. That is very helpful
@Lost&Found - You’re welcome.🤍
This on the surface may seem counterintuitive but for me personally it is not . To a reasonable extent dealing with toxic and difficult people can have a therapeutic effect. It helps me look inward for more self awareness and self discipline. Also some of the very qualities in these hard to deal with people are present in myself and I can work out further, knowing that I am not exactly “ a pleasant walk in the park “ , LOL !
I’m having a big OCD relapse and would like to hear anyone’s tips on how to be present and healthily deal with these intrusive thoughts and the “need” to preform compulsions. Thank you!!
I was going to ask for advice and vent after i just had an episode but reading through everyones post on here. I can see that everyone is collectively struggling at the moment and i think we need to utilize this community for more than just sharing our sadness. Nothing is wrong with venting of course but i feel like there isnt enough positive energy here to encourage everyone to keep going. I know asking for reassure feels like a must sometimes and trust me everyone has asked for it, it was a heavy compulsion of mine. But reassure is not what you need. It will make it worse everyone please trust me. Instead of letting out mind win we must support each other, understand our struggles but also share out wins. I feel like we dont use this community enough for finding friendship among us or spreading enough happiness. OCD Is not a happy disorder but seeing that everyone here is just here either hating on someone, people being too afraid to ask for help or no one reading peoples post. This place isnt just for our negative thoughts and events to fester we need to support each other here too! Ask for help, comment on peoples post with love everyone is struggling. In this community we should help pull each other out from dark places not let them stay there. I hope everyone who is going through it right has a better night/day/afternoon. You’re loved deeply your not a monster, your not evil, your not dirty, your not a heretic your Nothing your thoughts tell you are. Peace to you🤍🤍🤍🤍
How do you guys get past the anxiety? I feel like my thoughts are the only thing that control my mind. So often I feel like I should just leave my partner even tho I love them so much because I just feel like these thoughts are too much. I over analyze everything. I feel so stuck and defeated. I just want to be normal. I feel so toxic for the thoughts that I have
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