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- 1y
No friends
Anyone else just not have any friends I feel so alone and like I have nothing to do Feels like I’m just seeing everyone else do stuff and having fun with friends
Anyone else just not have any friends I feel so alone and like I have nothing to do Feels like I’m just seeing everyone else do stuff and having fun with friends
Yes I feel that a lot and honestly OCD has taken away that experience from me but I realised that I don't want to lose any more opportunities due to OCD and I don't have much friends now either but I'm willing to try
@gom I just feel like I’m out of place when I’m with people
@ambermayx - I am not going to deny and when I'm out and see people laughing and having fun I think to myself these people don't have to go through what I'm going through or that I won't ever be having fun like this but I literally force myself to hang out with people and have fun and new experiences cause that's what OCD does not want me to do and we are here to live our life on our terms and as for feeling out of place, I just say to myself that yes I might have ocd and they might not but who cares if I'm feeling out of sync, I'm here to have fun. Anyways this is what I try to do when OCD comes in and rules my life
@gom Yes thanjtou
@ambermayx *thankyou
I feel it..
@UG We’re not alone
Yes because ocd i kind of stop seeking people or talking to Friends it's hard but remember You are not alone
@Hopeful29 Thankyou
Right here 🧚♀️💯👋
@DanielsWifey thankyou
@ambermayx Thank you too!
Same, I feel like OCD has name me in likeable but I've generally always been pretty lonely. All my supposed friends recently planned a celebration dinner for finishing college without me and I've been so lonely . If o could made some irl friends with OCD or ADHD who understand each other, I would do everything with them
@Rage against the machine I really relate to this and me too if I had friends irl who had ocd or just understood it and were like me
My pocd makes me feel really lonely. I have friends who I love but they also struggle with mental health too, and when I'm there to listen and support them sometimes it's just too much and I feel like a bad friend. I can't help but feel like it's not the same, I know you can't compare your struggles to others but sometimes when my friend is telling me how they feel a lack of motivation and depressed I honestly wish I was just dealing with that instead of that and fearing that I'm a pedophile ontop of it. Like at least the thing you're dealing with isn't something that will make 90% of the population despise you, you know? I know that sounds bad and isn't very mature but I'm always the therapist friend for other people, and I'm the only one actually seeking help and trying to get better and I arguably have the worst thing to deal with. I feel like my friends only want to talk to me when they're depressed or need advice and I'm so tired of it.
Does anyone want to actually be friends? Id love to have a few friends to talk to maybe a group chat or something
I don’t know what to do anymore I made a friend recently in college and was texting her the other night and she mentioned she was doing her nails and I said nice and asked her if I could see. Because I was curious about what she did to them this time around and since then she has not responded to me I apologized to her saying I’m sorry if it bothered her but still nothing. Some of my friends just don’t answer me anymore I feel like I’m a burden of the ones who do still talk me I’m so done with it all. I’m tired of trying to find love as well I feel nothing to it anymore it’s only left me with disappointment and sadness I feel like I’m an unlovable husk of a person and that I would only ever be a bother I cannot fathom the idea of someone loving ME I just can’t I feel like it’s impossible I feel like everything about me bothers people to the point where I think is it even something I should try to achieve anymore. I should honestly block myself from trying to make new friends and relationships I’m so so tired of it. I feel unappreciated and annoyed that I am the one that has to try to keep up any sort of relationship because if I don’t reach out they never will reach out to me the reason I know this is because it’s been proven time after time since middle school that I am nothing to these people and I might as well no longer try. I don’t know what to do anymore I feel like I’m going to be all alone for the rest of my life I’m just so lonely now.
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