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No friends
Anyone else just not have any friends I feel so alone and like I have nothing to do Feels like I’m just seeing everyone else do stuff and having fun with friends
Anyone else just not have any friends I feel so alone and like I have nothing to do Feels like I’m just seeing everyone else do stuff and having fun with friends
Yes I feel that a lot and honestly OCD has taken away that experience from me but I realised that I don't want to lose any more opportunities due to OCD and I don't have much friends now either but I'm willing to try
@gom I just feel like I’m out of place when I’m with people
@ambermayx - I am not going to deny and when I'm out and see people laughing and having fun I think to myself these people don't have to go through what I'm going through or that I won't ever be having fun like this but I literally force myself to hang out with people and have fun and new experiences cause that's what OCD does not want me to do and we are here to live our life on our terms and as for feeling out of place, I just say to myself that yes I might have ocd and they might not but who cares if I'm feeling out of sync, I'm here to have fun. Anyways this is what I try to do when OCD comes in and rules my life
@gom Yes thanjtou
@ambermayx *thankyou
I feel it..
@UG We’re not alone
Yes because ocd i kind of stop seeking people or talking to Friends it's hard but remember You are not alone
@Hopeful29 Thankyou
Right here 🧚♀️💯👋
@DanielsWifey thankyou
@ambermayx Thank you too!
Same, I feel like OCD has name me in likeable but I've generally always been pretty lonely. All my supposed friends recently planned a celebration dinner for finishing college without me and I've been so lonely . If o could made some irl friends with OCD or ADHD who understand each other, I would do everything with them
@Rage against the machine I really relate to this and me too if I had friends irl who had ocd or just understood it and were like me
I went online today playing a social game & couldn’t rlly talk to anyone. there was this one girl that started talking but then my wifi started acting up. it’s rlly hard to talk to ppl online bc it’s tiring having to put up with rude ass people. yeah, I can do in person but I also struggle with that too. the online friends I have don’t rlly talk much and I guess it makes sense bc everyone is busy with life but man. I’ve been feeling quite lonely as of late and idk how much I can hold on. it’s like I’m losing touch with the online ones. I don’t have any irl since 17 & I am tired. idk man I just wanna disappear and spawn in another world or jus be happy. I think I might quit my job and pursue a design job at home depot thru networking bc that’s a plan B I have. that’s if I can even land the job. I think I might take a break from college bc idek what I want atp. I feel like I’m slowly dying inside from this loneliness. I am trying everyday. this feeling is soooo ass
My pocd makes me feel really lonely. I have friends who I love but they also struggle with mental health too, and when I'm there to listen and support them sometimes it's just too much and I feel like a bad friend. I can't help but feel like it's not the same, I know you can't compare your struggles to others but sometimes when my friend is telling me how they feel a lack of motivation and depressed I honestly wish I was just dealing with that instead of that and fearing that I'm a pedophile ontop of it. Like at least the thing you're dealing with isn't something that will make 90% of the population despise you, you know? I know that sounds bad and isn't very mature but I'm always the therapist friend for other people, and I'm the only one actually seeking help and trying to get better and I arguably have the worst thing to deal with. I feel like my friends only want to talk to me when they're depressed or need advice and I'm so tired of it.
Does anyone want to actually be friends? Id love to have a few friends to talk to maybe a group chat or something
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