Please if anyone could help with the earlier post

@d3adpan_ Oh brother idk why i thought that was a feature.. i made the post an hour ago. It was an Rocd post 😅

@Anonymous123456789# You can tag me if that works?

@d3adpan_ Haii! Thanks i just tagged ya i hope it worked

@Anonymous123456789# It didn’t work😟

@d3adpan_ Hmm ill copy and paste here lol lets see

@d3adpan_ So ive stopped hanging out with lots of my friends because i get intrusive thoughts about all of them. Besides two girl friends i practically consider sisters. Everyone else whos a guy especially i get intrusive thoughts and worry if these are actual thoughts i have and whether or not im a cheater, i should confess, if its really ocd or just an excuse to flirt with people who are my friends and get away with it.. i analyze every word i say and have just decided to avoid now. As soon as i get the thought of “that’s attractive” “im gonna flirt”. Thats it.. i no longer no how to act around them and decide to just avoid them.

@Anonymous123456789# Umm and this is the most recent post: So to keep this post a bit shorter. I am dating someone now and every other male friend ive ever had an intrusive thought with or seen in a romantic light (which is literally all of them) i feel guilty hanging out with them at all… like im cheating. Im also bi curious so now it happens to women who i think are attractive as well. Its isolating i barely have any friends because i have a guilty thoughts about any person in my life. So besides my parents i dont allow myself to hang out with anyone

@d3adpan_ Thanks for any help again i appreciate it ❤️

@Anonymous123456789# I relate a ton I actually struggle with this everyday! And since me and my fiance is really open about this he tends to calm me down and then I reassure him, I know how hard it is but ur not a cheater (I assume u have a fear of cheating on ur partner too?) and it’s good ur removing urself from that situation bc it’s bad for ur mental health the best thing for you to do is to be like wtf brain which is something I will do! And to constantly remind urself that’s now how you feel and that goes against ur morals in a relationship! And eventually you’ll get the hang of it and the thoughts will just start pissing you off wigg tbh a slight of anxiety instead of going into a full panic constantly

@Anonymous123456789# And for the bi curious thing, I think it’s something you should talk about aswell but me personally I don’t think it’s something you should focus on especially since you’re in a relationship but everyone is different! But don’t forget it’s okay to take a break to realize who you are or you can always just accept the fact you find women attractive whether is aesthetic attraction or not, don’t dwell on it to much and ik it’s kinda off topic

@d3adpan_ Thank you for this message. This disease is sooo insidious it takes the joy out of everything. I feel bad bringing up the rocd stuff to my partner as i know he might not understand it fully and it can just be hurtful to hear.. do you have any tips on how you do it? I do have a fear of cheating actually.. its the reason why i feel guilty about going to this interview

@d3adpan_ You give great advice truly thank you ❤️❤️❤️

@Anonymous123456789# No because same! I’m absolutely terrified but honestly my fiance helps me through it! And he also took time to understand rocd too even tho it hurts he also understands that it hurts me aswell and I don’t want these thoughts it’s best to have a deep conversation with ur partner

@d3adpan_ Follow up question. I was told to not engage in these thoughts and say maybe they are true or maybe not and follow thru with action.. could i ask how you incorporate ways to stop ocd while dealing with relationship ocd with ur partner.. ik u said u talk things out with them but if its not too intrusive could i ask for an example?