Can't tell if my bf cares about me

Ive been really sad lately because i am afraid my bf doesn't care about me. He said he loved me for the first time yesterday. But today i am scared he is lying to me. I got a trigger today another guy texted me something weird and i sent him the text and was hoping he would be protective. But he just said that guy might have been the one who smashed his car window. And was t really acting protective at all and so now i am scared that means this is all a huge lie. I am so sad. All the time. I can't tell if he really cares and i feel like i should know. When we are lying in bed he never comes to my side to cuddle i always go to him. I know i shouldn't ask for reassurance but i need help, if someone can help me feel some relief somehow...i feel so sad and scared all the time my biggest fear is if someone is lying to me about how they feel

d3adpan_

Date posted: 1y

The best thing you can do is to communicate and tell him if he doesn’t show interest in him things have to end.. ik this isn’t the comfort you really want but my fiance doesn’t even do that.. have a really deep conversation with him and speak how you feel and if u still see no change his time is up

charissepisc...

Date posted: 1y

What should i tell him?

charissepisc...

Date posted: 1y

@charissepisces2021 Like that i feel like he doesn't care that much?

d3adpan_

Date posted: 1y

@charissepisces2021 See I’ll understand if he’s showing affection and etc but it doesn’t seem like he is and I don’t think this rocd but u worrying if he actually love you not

d3adpan_

Date posted: 1y

@charissepisces2021 Start saying how u feel and how it feels like he doesn’t love you

charissepisc...

Date posted: 1y

@d3adpan_ Okay thank you for your reply ☺ ❤

Gmoki

Date posted: 22w

Relationship

I feel so bad I overthink abt everything my bf says and does. I think that if he doesn’t say x y z when I want reassurance then he must’ve stopped caring or is tired of me. I know it’s not the truth and he gives me NO reason to think this way. This is my first healthy relationship and I want to be in each others lives forever. I love him so much and I’m trying my hardest to manage these thoughts but I’m so anxious. It’s so draining I feel helpless and like I can’t go a day without checking his social medias. I want us to be the best versions of ourselves for eachother but idk where to start or how to manage this feeling.

cam123

Date posted: 22w

Stressing about my relationship

Me and my boyfriend have only been together for a short period of time....and he's head over heels for me...at least he says so. All the time I'm so scared he's going to break up with me or any time something is uncomfortable I shut down and think I did something or he's thinking about me in a negative way and I don't know how to stop it. He doesn't do anything to seem like he wants to break up with me, but any time he does something a little different then normal I immediately think of the worst. If he's being really quiet I'll be thinking *is he going to break up with me* *does he not want to be with me* *is he just hanging out with me right now because he wants a girlfriend to pass the time* all of that stuff. And honestly I'm so scared..... because what if my thoughts are true?

🖤BrokenChaos🖤

Date posted: 18w

Update on BF situation

My terror seems like it's become a reality. Last night when I asked him if he loved me (we both used to do that before he became really distant), he said he'd think about it. I thought he was joking, but when I checked to make sure, he just said "Good night." L-like, what the hell am I supposed to do with that?? Anyway, cried for a good hour/hour-and-a-half while hurting m*self cuz ya'know, I must have done something for him to be questioning whether he loves me or not. I'm too emotional? Jump to conclusions sometimes? I'm annoying? I'm too much?? I don't know why and it's driving me insane. I'm gonna try and call with him today but, I'm not eating anything. ROCD has made everything Reality. 😢😰😓

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