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- 1y
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- OCD Conqueror
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At the end of the day we are human and all make mistakes. No one is perfect.
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By practicing breathing techniques and knowing this, when others can live with uncertainty, definitely I can do that. Even if it sounds hard, it isn't impossible. Remember to be kind to yourself and forgive yourself for anything.
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I do have this one life lesson (that I still struggle with lol and bear with me I will get to the point haha) Every human has intrinsic worth that never goes up or down. The reason working hard matters is so society can work together to survive but the point is not to be productive, it is to survive so we can just be. Even people with CRAZY views that think we should kill others for the greater good, only do that cause they care about lives in the first place. we miss THE answer that is right in front of us: We’re intrinsically worthy. Yes our actions have value in the sense they have a cause and effect, But being in pain or not being in pain does not change your intrinsic worth. We shouldn’t do things to earn worth we should do things to help each-other and enjoy life. I truly think that PRIDE and SHAME are NOT opposites but the fuel of each other Humbleness is the cure. Which is UN-CONDITIONAL love for others and yourself Basically regardless of anything don’t love yourself more or less just focus on helping others💗 and when you make a moral mistake have “good-guilt” (which is empathy for the person you hurt that motivates you to change)
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- 19w
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