Lboyfriend has rocd help

Is it normal ? My boyfriend has rocd he used to not be able to look at girls but now he’s having a wank over my sister ?? Told him to stop it and he’s done it again after everything he’s put me through with this rocd which I know isn’t his fault but 3 years of hell and I have been expressing my mental health is bad last couple days and he goes and does that when I told him to not ever do it again am I in the wrong for being mad he keeps saying most boys would do it and he felt an urge to

Username: kiwibasketkiwibasket

Date posted: 31w ago

oh... yeah no rocd does not make you do that thats terrible

Username: daisy1728383daisy1728383

Date posted: 31w ago

@kiwibasket Thought so!! Idk what to do about it

Username: daisy1728383daisy1728383

Date posted: 31w ago

Just wanted to get people with ocd idea as he’s saying he knows it was bad especially because we have spoke about it not long ago but he’s saying it was his ocd that made him do it he’s really honest all the time but I feel like it’s not a good excuse , getting me down how obsessed he is with everyone else but avoids me which I understand because he’s got rocd but sick of feeling so down about it all for 3.5 years

Username: thebubblyonethebubblyone

Date posted: 31w ago

i'm really sorry you're going through this. it sounds incredibly tough, especially when you're already dealing with your own mental health struggles. feeling mad is totally valid given the situation. 💔 by the way, have you heard about this new AI-powered OCD therapy tool called "unstuck?" when i was dealing with something similar, what really helped me was this free AI OCD therapy tool called "unstuck" (unstuckmyocd.com/try) that my NOCD therapist recommended to me. i think it'll be especially helpful for your boyfriend because it provides personalized step-by-step support when OCD gets difficult, just like an OCD therapist might. it might help him understand and manage his rocd in a healthier way, which could be beneficial for both of you. i hate when people promote stuff, but i really think it can help you because it's changed my life. lmk if you have Qs or just want to talk more! <3

Username: Anonymous

Date posted: 3y ago

i personally do not have OCD, but my boyfriend has ROCD and it’s really taking a toll on us and our relationship and i’m not sure how to stop getting upset over his negative thoughts

Relationship OCD

Username: dandelion2002

Date posted: 2y ago

As someone with rocd is it normal to feel uncomfortable with your boyfriend talking to his ex/someone he had sex with? My boyfriend is extremely understanding and loyal but it still makes me uncomfortable that some of his best friends are people he had sex with. I'm not trying to seek reassurance I just genuinely don't know if this is my rocd talking or not you know??

Relationship OCD

Username: Anonymous

Date posted: 2y ago

ROCD and annoyance

I love my boyfriend so much! Sometimes though I get irritated with everything and anything he does. He won’t do anything bad, just make a joke, or laugh, and I get anxious, which I think is because I’m internally checking how I feel about him (completely unaware I’m even doing it), and then I get irritated. And it’s like I’m always irritated by anything he does. I feel it’s because my mind is rescreening how I feel and checking my emotions and whether “I love him enough” and that anxiety makes me anxious. Is this normal? Anyone else know what I’m talking about or have tips to help me?

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