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is this false attraction?
i have a crush on this guy in my grade, but my brain keeps reminding me of this other guy and its making me really u comfortable
i have a crush on this guy in my grade, but my brain keeps reminding me of this other guy and its making me really u comfortable
Intrusive thoughts stem from fears and your moral system. You may fear disloyalty or infidelity, and hold faithfulness and commitment dearly. If the thought is making you uncomfortable, it’s most likely ocd. Also, if it helps, if you were attracted to the other guy you wouldn’t feel uncomfortable thinking about it :)
Ughhhhhh it feels like I can’t tell between false attraction or attractive 😭 :/ idk I just saw some pics of joji and artist that makes music when he was younger (it was a post on insta) and on one of them I thought oh he looks cute here, but no I’m like omg but idk in what way tho but it felt like not false attraction like I thought or meant it in another way and I. Felt that and then kinda freaked out bc idk if it’s weird and then I felt groinals and *sigh*
So I identify as a lesbian and I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful girl. But i’m stressing that I have crushes on boys I go to school with. I get anxious around them, which I think I mistake for excitement. I obsess over it in my head which confuses me a lot. Idk I also never think about them sexually or romantically but I think about them often which is scaring me. Any advice?
Hey guys recently I been facing anxiety because I have a fear that I acted on something I know I didn't do but it feels real because it felt like I had attraction and arousal to a younger photo of a ex gf I feel so weird feel so anxious I need help Idk what to do
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