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- khloe!!
- Date posted
- 31w ago
is this false attraction?
i have a crush on this guy in my grade, but my brain keeps reminding me of this other guy and its making me really u comfortable
i have a crush on this guy in my grade, but my brain keeps reminding me of this other guy and its making me really u comfortable
Intrusive thoughts stem from fears and your moral system. You may fear disloyalty or infidelity, and hold faithfulness and commitment dearly. If the thought is making you uncomfortable, it’s most likely ocd. Also, if it helps, if you were attracted to the other guy you wouldn’t feel uncomfortable thinking about it :)
hey, i totally get how confusing and frustrating it must feel when your brain keeps pulling you in different directions, especially about something as personal as feelings for someone. 😣 it's tough when your thoughts don't align with what you truly feel in your heart. by the way, have you heard about this new ai-powered ocd therapy tool called "unstuck?" when i was dealing with similar intrusive thoughts that just wouldn't give me a break, this free ai ocd therapy tool (unstuckmyocd.com/try) that my nocd therapist recommended really made a difference for me. i think it'll be especially helpful for you because it provides personalized, step-by-step support when ocd tries to mess with your feelings, helping you navigate these uncomfortable thoughts more smoothly, kinda like having an ocd therapist in your pocket. i hate when people promote stuff, but i really think it can help you because it's changed my life. lmk if you have qs or just want to talk more! <3
@thebubblyone Hey! Question, is it free?
What are false attractions like for everyone else? Here’s how mine go, they’re either groinal responses which are normal and I try not to give TOO much meaning to, but the one that fucks me up the most is when, I see a girl and I get a sensation in my stomach kinda like butterflies when you have a crush, but then I start panicking, they’re just sensations just bc I have no desire to be intimate with them or anything, but it’s tingling sensations throughout my body and stuff too and that drives me crazy. Ik my brain is doing a false alarm thing just bc it’s just a sensation and if I did have a crush I would know ?. But yeah that’s how mine are.
how do i know if something is false attraction or genuine attraction? is there anyway to figure this out?
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