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Are these normal things to want in a partner
I’m super convinced i am a bad person because I actively avoid people who are “better” than me at music or English since I have low self esteem to begin with so I just get jealous of them if they’re better than me and then I feel stupid. I’m 19F. These are the things I love the most in people -music. They have to like music they don’t have to play an instrument. Honestly I’d prefer if they don’t. I play piano and it’s more of a self confidence issue but if they are really good and I’m not it just makes me feel like I’m horrible lol -funny. I love funny people just people who say what’s on their mind in a conversation. I have been told I am pretty funny and everyone says I’m the funniest person they know and that’s honestly just cuz I know how to read a room so I like someone who can do the same. I get the ick when someone makes a joke and it doesn’t land. (I know that’s horrible) -emotionally intelligent. Don’t really know what to say about this but I need someone who understands people. Preferably someone who has been through some shit who can understand me and what I’ve been through -I want someone who cares about their life but they don’t have to be in college they just have a career of some kind. I’ve never dated another English major but honestly I don’t know if I could. I’m attracted to people who are good at things I completely suck at I think it’s soooo sexxxyy When a guy is good at math or science cuz idk anything about it and I’m absolutely horrible at it. Tbh I’m pretty insecure so dating someone who is into the same things as me like music or English gets me discouraged and I’ll get jealous hahah. I’m trying to work on it though. I probably sound like a total bitch lol. It’s like threatening to me I’ll just feel really dumb. This is honestly the same with friendships, but I know it comes from a place of low self esteem.