anxious because I’m always annoyed at my bf and I know it’s just ocd in the form of anger but read a comment on TikTok saying your body is rejecting ur bf if you’re always annoyed and now I’m so scared :))
maybe or maybe it’s just OCD or maybe he’s a little annoying or maybe it’s hormones or maybe it’s a million other things. TikTok advice is NOT to be trusted 95% of the time so try to break to cycle of thoughts around that video and follow your heart.
@puppet That is so true, I need to stop trusting random sources !
your boyfriend will annoy you in the same way that your most loved family members will. It’s human to annoy. It’s okay to feel frustrated and feel annoyed but that does not mean you don’t love him even if you can’t connect to any lovey feelings at the moment. Love is a choice not built on any singular feeling, but the ability to stay and care through any and all feelings, even doubt and confusion
@Anonymous thank you so much for this, it helped a lot !
TikTok always triggers me with my ROCD too
@ambermayx Allllll the time honestly, I’ve had to mute certain words and hashtags but now thinking that’s a compulsion
@ocdsufferer101 Wait I didn’t know you could mute certain words and hashtags? I feel like I need this because I’m very sensitive
For the past 3 months ish I’ve been struggling on and off with this anxiety and fixation over my relationship. To wondering if i still have feelings for an old friend, wondering if i actually love him, wondering if the thoughts are all real and im just trying to cover it up with ocd. It sucks, when im talking to my boyfriend i feel fine. The words i love you and talks about the future come naturally. I can’t imagine myself with anyone but him. But this constant rumination on my relationship is KILLING me and I’m scared it’s going to ruin what i have. It makes me numb and disconnected which therefore makes me believe the thoughts even more. They just feel so real sometimes and it’s so scary like why can i not just enjoy it. We’ve been together for a while so i know there’s periods of like feelings ebb and flowing but this is so much more. It’s just constantly sitting on my chest with anxiety. My compulsions are coming on this app, looking at photos of us and confessing it to him. He’s very understanding and helpful. I love him so much. I just need help / I’m also just starting new meds as well ..
for me it’s getting to the point where i don’t feel in love with my boyfriend anymore. i’m trying to keep myself from compulsing since my compulsions are all mental. it’s like the thoughts consume my mind every second of every day and i can’t catch a break. it’s like i want to be with him so bad but my brain won’t allow me. any advice?
Recently my ocd keeps asking me if I love my boyfriend enough and that if I don’t love him enough I should breakup with him. It’s really bothering me and idk what to do about it. Sitting in the uncertainty is too much and I fear sitting with it too long I’m just gonna crack and give in to a compulsion.
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