anxious because I’m always annoyed at my bf and I know it’s just ocd in the form of anger but read a comment on TikTok saying your body is rejecting ur bf if you’re always annoyed and now I’m so scared :))
maybe or maybe it’s just OCD or maybe he’s a little annoying or maybe it’s hormones or maybe it’s a million other things. TikTok advice is NOT to be trusted 95% of the time so try to break to cycle of thoughts around that video and follow your heart.
@puppet That is so true, I need to stop trusting random sources !
your boyfriend will annoy you in the same way that your most loved family members will. It’s human to annoy. It’s okay to feel frustrated and feel annoyed but that does not mean you don’t love him even if you can’t connect to any lovey feelings at the moment. Love is a choice not built on any singular feeling, but the ability to stay and care through any and all feelings, even doubt and confusion
@Anonymous thank you so much for this, it helped a lot !
TikTok always triggers me with my ROCD too
@ambermayx Allllll the time honestly, I’ve had to mute certain words and hashtags but now thinking that’s a compulsion
@ocdsufferer101 Wait I didn’t know you could mute certain words and hashtags? I feel like I need this because I’m very sensitive
Recently, I had a really bad bout of ROCD, but when my boyfriend came to visit for the first time in a while it settled down a bit because I was happy to see him, and things have been pretty good since then. But this morning I saw a tiktok about a girl complaining about how her boyfriend doesn’t do that many little things, which is a very minor problem I have in my relationship, and everybody in the comments was telling her to leave him. It was extremely triggering, even thought I’m very happy with my boyfriend and he treats me well. I wish I had never watched that tiktok.
Ocd really bad today because last night my bf was doing things I found cringey and I worry that means I don’t like him and I also had the thought “maybe you’ve outgrown him” and it felt true
It has completely switched to me being scared I don’t want to be with him. I’ve been struggling for days. I’ve been googling stuff all day too. And then my friend asked me “do you actually like him?” And it’s been stuck in my head. And then I answered yes but my head was like do you really though? Can it really convince you that you don’t and that you’re lying to yourself? And can you feel like you’re lying to them about it all? It makes me feel sick. And then my friend said “I think you’re just second guessing things because you’ve never been in a healthy relationship” my mind keeps going to “what if you really are not mean to be together? You know deep down. What if you’re having all these thoughts because you just aren’t mean to be?” And I don’t have like insane butterflies or infatuation with him like I did my previous partners, but they were so abusive and toxic. Im so terrified my mind will convince me to break up with him and I don’t want to 😞
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