I keep having the most extreme, disgusting thoughts. I’m scared that if I keep thinking it I’ll end up liking it. My mind is telling me that I like it even though it has always disgusted me.
I’m so so sorry I completely understand. Unwanted thoughts can be horrifying and ruin your day. I struggle with them really bad. I just have to laugh at them and say I’m glad that would never happen and just try to move on with my day it’s the best way to cope with them. Just because you have unwanted thoughts doesn’t mean you want to or would ever act on them. Most people have unwanted thoughts and they don’t even dwell on them the fact that you question them and say this is disgusting why would I ever think that just proves that you wouldn’t end up being like your unwanted thoughts I promise 🫶 hope this helps 🫶
@Lolitamoon Thank you, this helps a lot!!
This was me today I had multiple thoughts about family and they were horrifying. What helps me with these thoughts is to embrace them, trick the thoughts into thinking I’m okay with you tricking me. Because at the end of the day you know it’s not you thinking it it’s those thoughts thinking you will surrender to them.
I'm sorry. I know what you mean tho. It's so hard and you want them out of your head, so you can live like a normal person. I wish I had some advice. Just know you aren't alone in this. I want my old self back! I feel your pain and stress
**TMI Warning: This post is very personal and might be uncomfortable for some.** I’m feeling panicked and need to get this out. I have intrusive thoughts that make me question my morals, especially about consent. I have a CNC preference (consent to non-consent), but I feel so conflicted because I know how horrifying and heartbreaking real non-consensual acts are. The thought of anyone suffering in that way is so awful, yet I get thoughts that feel like I’m justifying the real thing—the immoral thing. Sometimes, I feel like I have to focus hard just to truly condemn it, and that terrifies me. It’s hard to separate these thoughts from who I am, and I’m scared it means something terrible about me. I feel so much shame for having a CNC preference. I know it’s rooted in consent, but I feel like I’ve never had certainty that I fully condemn the real thing. I’m scared that deep down, I might think it’s all the same.
Hey yall, having a tough time. I’ve been struggling with intrusive thoughts while I self pleasure and it GENUIENLY feels like I enjoy them for whatever reason. And then now about half an hour later it’s like okay it’s a sexual thought but I might not actually like it. Idk I just really hate myself, because I basically genuinely liked it in the moment
I don’t know if my hormones are extra wild this month or what, but I have been having so many POCD thoughts lately. It feels like I enjoy them in the moment, and then a few seconds later, I get this tiny flicker of *wait I don’t think I actually want to enjoy that.* It’s scaring me a lot. I was watching adult videos for the first time in about a year, since I had been avoiding them because of my OCD. I know they are not good for anyone, but I felt like i could (ironically it felt like a tiny win that my OCD had calmed down enough). But while watching, I had like 3 separate POCD thoughts. And it felt like I liked them. Like genuinely *liked* them. I don’t know if maybe my body was mixing up physical pleasure and mental pleasure, and then my brain inserted those not okay thoughts into the situation, which got tangled up with the pleasure responses I felt mentally and physically. It is all really confusing. I just feel so scared. I know OCD thoughts are supposed to feel real, and that once you get desensitized to the anxiety, they lose their power. But this feels like I am *actually enjoying* the thoughts, and that makes me want to cry. I’m scared that I actually like these thoughts when I’m really aroused :( Please help.
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