Anyone have precum with POCD and holding newborns? #POCD #Precum #newborns #baby #babies #parents — randomly holding a newborn and worrying about POCD thoughts and checking for days for groinal response and precum leakage and randomly checked once and maybe a self fulfilling prophecy a little precum was noticed but there are no sexual thoughts or sexual attractions to the baby. Am I pedophile or is this POCD?
i can’t reassure the thought for you because it would just come back stronger unfortunately mama, i’m so sorry but i think the fact that you’re upset by the thought and came to us to ask says something really good about you as a person. 🩷🩷🩷 i don’t know you but i love you so much and you are such a good person and parent
@venusasanenby Thank you I am daddy - I just changed my profile picture —- I am so distressed about this
@footballsoccer2019 OH HELLO DAD!!! everytime it comes up again try to label it “ocd thought” 🧘🏽♀️
@venusasanenby I will never understand why precum happens - there is no sexual attraction around a baby but why precum ??????? Isn’t that proof of pedophilia?
What are you doing when looking for precum? Trying to answer the question, am I a pedophile? No answer will ever satisfy ocd, ever, EVER! Until you stop trying to answer this question you will remain anxious. Know that trying to solve this will only ever increase your anxiety. Next time you go looking or try getting an answer, tell yourself Im doing this because I want to remain anxious forever. I already know that ruminating on this and trying to solve it has zero ability to protect me or make me feel safe. Am I a pedophile does not require an answer. Unless in the moment you are actively molesting a child or have already done so without any doubt or required analyzing. In which case the question would not need you to seek out an answer as it would be answered, you do not need to solve this.
@Malisimo Does anyone ever have this fear and physical manifestation of precum which is more than thoughts isn’t this proof of pediphile
@footballsoccer2019 Stop trying to answer this! You are seeking reassurance and torturing yourself. It doesn’t need an answer. Maybe it happens, maybe not, it wouldn’t prove anything anyway. You could fully cum while looking at a baby and it still wouldn’t mean you are a pedo. Maybe someone has an ejaculating disorder who knows anything is possible. Just let it go. Nothing proves anything, doesn’t need solved, end of story. If you continue to try and answer this question then just know you are actively sabotaging yourself and will remain anxious and trapped until you decide to stop solving this unanswerable question.
Hi NOCD community, I was hoping to get some advice from fellow sufferers. In December we welcomed the first baby into the family, my beautiful niece. Since then, my POCD has been awful, which I know is probably very normal. Last week, in the middle of a very high stress day in my family, I was changing my niece and as usually happens, I got intrusive thoughts about awful things people do to babies when changing them. The thoughts were so harrowing to have as I was also changing her at the exact same time, and I felt my hands just quickly want to finish patting her dry before putting her nappy on, and for some reason, my heart dropped with that hand movement, because I was afraid that I had acted out the awful thoughts in my head, in a moment of mania because my morals, values and heart do not align with abuse of any kind, especially to children. My niece is my everything, and I know I would never want harm to come to her in any way, shape or form. I love her endlessly. I am having therapy, but have only had a couple of sessions. But, I cannot shake the 'what if'. I am tortured over trying to remember what it was I did that made my heart drop, but I can't, and its getting fuzzier and fuzzier the more I try to remember. Could anyone offer any advice on this please? Thank you.
Anyone experience intrusive thoughts of their children during intimate moments? Have you done erp to this? I had one and continued slightly before running and needing to vomit now feel guilty anyone else experienced this?
Let me start by prefacing that I developed ocd as postpartum ocd after having my first child. I had harm and pocd. I had it on and off for years and then it just eventually went away completely for many years until recently after a stressful life event. Now that it’s back it again targets my children but now my grandchildren also. It’s been horrible and makes me pull away from them. Last night my 6 year old granddaughter threw up in the car when my daughter was about to take her home so my daughter brought her back in the house and asked me to clean her up while she cleaned her car. I had some anxiety about it because of my ocd but I couldn’t say no to helping so I opened the bathroom door and my granddaughter was standing in her underwear waiting for me to clean and dress her. Everything was fine and normal but then for some reason, I have no idea why, I looked down at her chest area. I immediately got so upset and didn’t know why I looked there and now my ocd is saying it’s because i’m a monster. I tried to tell myself it’s just normal human behavior when someone is standing there naked that you look where you shouldn’t simply because it’s just there in front of you but I feel horrible. I don’t feel any inappropriate way about her or any child but my ocd is saying it was inappropriate. Has anyone else been through this?
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