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Compulsions
Hi guys i wanted to know if some compulsions for ocd can be dangerous to yourself or others
Hi guys i wanted to know if some compulsions for ocd can be dangerous to yourself or others
(I am not a Therapist or psychologist. I feel mental professionals would have way more experience in the diversity of compulsions out there to answer this question accuately) Just as a patient myself who has a attended support groups for a while, I feel like at its core OCD stems from a deep-seeded sense of over-responsibility and fear of what-if, at its very nature almost all compulsions are intended to prevent a perceived harm. The only “danger” Ive ever found compulsions to pose is emotional. They can cause some serious emotional damage to the person experiencing them and the people around them (loved ones mostly) The worst of this are unfortunately people who are so deep in their obsessions they lack enough awareness to identify its OCD and/or get help for themselves. Ive personally seen this at its worst with children being emotionally impacted my the obsessions and compulsions of their parents, who’ve had to grow up with their parents imposing “rules” that were just extensions of their compulsions not realizing they were causing damage to their children and family as a result. In general when family members are “expected” to cater to compulsions in tied up in a persons compulsions, it seems like another level of harmful to all parties emotionally.
A lot of compulsions can be accompanied from intrusive thoughts for example thoughts like “what if I put my hand in that frying pan” or something and those intrusive thoughts in severe cases can be dangerous as intrusive thoughts can be violent, illegal or just overall immoral
@Xwi A thought on it own isn’t dangerous though. Our emotional reaction to these thoughts is our brain indicating to us its “unsafe”, which is what feeds OCD. These thoughts get sticky so we inherently believe they and we panic like its an immediate threat and utilize compulsions to “prevent” the danger. Thoughts are just thoughts and have no value until we apply meaning to them.
@sadieinez Exactly! I was just meaning that the thoughts can depict dangerous things such as violent or illegal things which are dangerous and as you said when you act on them that’s when it’s dangerous
For me certainly. I've fasted for over two weeks before and been vegan without supplements for extended periods.
@Newerthannewb82 Ive never thought of this. Thank you for your vulnerability in sharing ❤️
Okay so In the moment I get intrusive thoughts about children which I hate. I get the gronal responses which I always so many compultions after. My ocd is very bad and I’m showering and changing my bedding around 8 times. Therapists have told me I’m the worse they’ve ever known. That’s how bad my life is atm. I hate this disorder. I want to know if ocd can cause these things as it will help me to fight my compulsions and just except it’s ocd… In the moment the gronal responses are genuinely pleasurable and I struggle to ignore them and stop them, in the moment t I want them even if it was due to a thought of a kid My OCD will tell me I’m aroused I’ll feel aroused then when moving around in my bed it’ll tell me to make my vagina touch my bedding for a feeling while I’m turning over and I purposely do it in the moment… I hate it. After I do so many compilations, it’s not even me it’s like someone else controlling my body When I try to fight my compulsions I think in my mind “I like this anyways” and actually like the thoughts and gronal responses over the children, which then makes me not be able to fight them. For example my ocf was telling me to spray my feet with anti back, but then I tried to fight it and I was thinking to myself “nah l like this one I like this feeling over the kid it’s the real me” like I didn’t even feel stressed from it it’s like I wanted it. Of corse after these I do lots and many compultions Please I just want to know if ocd can do this
I don't know if this is exactly a compulsion, but for a few months I had this mindset of "I have to be anxious so that nothing bad will happen." It was mostly when I went out in any way. Sometimes it was for other people too. For example if my mom went to the store/to get food without me. This was mostly during the time when I had been staying inside constantly for a little over a month. Idk if it was an exact cause but I had seen someone who FOLLOWED me last year, hence why I was staying inside. I guess I just want to know if this is common? I know that the whole "if I do this, then this won't happen" thing is common in ocd, but idk how common it is to somewhat force yourself to be anxious.
I think i have ocd. Two years ago i had a few panic attack and person related obsessions that i couldnt get over. Now since i’m free of college and work i have an intrusive thought about hitting myself. It is panicking and i don’t know what to do. I have already acted twice on the thoughts but now my mind says i have to hit harder… i know it sounds weird, but does anyone have any tips etc..? :)
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