i did something not very good and i cannot move on from it because i truly don’t feel i deserve to. it’s like inhumane and i don’t feel like i should ever be happy. trying to forgive myself and move on is the hardest thing to do.
I’ve been through this. Dwelling on past mistakes will make you feel unworthy of anything good. You can’t change the past but you can change yourself to be better. As long as you genuinely regret your mistakes and have become a better person then you can let it go and forgive yourself. That isn’t you anymore and you have learned and grown from it.
@hopefulxmess thank you. ❤️
I’ve been here and I struggled with this hardcore for about a year, but I want you to know you will move past it. I thought at the time there was no moving on from the things I’d done (and I realize now how miniscule they were) because they were world endingly bad, but here I am now doing better
@glücklich Thank you so much
@Anonymous We’ve all been there, friend
I did something 5-6 years ago when I was barely an adult, and I know it was stupid, but I know I can never take it back, and I hate myself everyday for it. I feel like I can’t move forward in life because I can’t forgive myself and honestly sometimes don’t even want people to see I exist. I haven’t done that same thing in years but I still see myself as a horrible person. How do I move forward. I’ve been in therapy since I was 19 and also have extreme extreme checking ocd and it hasn’t helped but this rumination has been a big problem lately.
I realised I did a bad thing when I was a kid ... I hurt one of my friend.. I didnt realised then what I did. I am ruminating constantly about it ... I cant get over it and I feel like I dont deserve to get over it. I keep ruminating and ask myself questions ... What should I do?
I did a bad thing when I was a kid. I feel like I dont deserve to move on and dont deserve to be happy. I keep thinking about the damage that I did and I feel like I deserve to be alone . And that I cant be trusted. Any advice?
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