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Any tips on whenever you’re getting that intrusive thought, what can I tell myself without reassuring myself
Any tips on whenever you’re getting that intrusive thought, what can I tell myself without reassuring myself
Maybe it's true ! ..... anything to reduce anxiety is not the way to go I think.
for intrusive thoughts the only thing that works for is acknowledging that the thought is there and label it. saying “that’s an ocd thought” or “thats an intrusive thought”. then i try to move on completely and distract myself with some sort of task.
Something I do is I say "I"m not gonna argue with that thought. I am free to have whatever thoughts. Maybe it's true maybe it's not." It can also be scary but sometimes I do the opposite of what I want to do (avoid, distract ect. Is what I want to do). So I will purposely think about the thought or tell myself I hope it keeps coming back. I will also try to one up the thought or speak it out loud and laugh realizing how ridiculous it actually sounds. Seeing OCD for the ridiculous manipulator it is helps me some. Idk OCD sucks tho. Sending love 💗
whats up guys what are some tips dealing with ocd and what to do when a thought makes u anxious ??
So, if I'm retelling a story or relaying information to someone, after I'm done speaking, my brain will send me thoughts like, "What if you lied? You might have told the story wrong! You're lying!" I've started second-guessing myself, even when I know I'm not lying or telling the story wrong😭 This has also bled into twisting my intentions behind certain actions... For example, the other day, I'd been babysitting my younger brothers. I'd gone to use the restroom and thought, "What if the door isn't locked or closed all the way?" Because this has happened once in the past. Turns out, it didn't lock correctly, and one of my little brothers almost walked in on me, but luckily, I shut the door in time, and we laughed it off. But then, I kept getting thoughts like, "You knew that would happen, and you didn't double-check! You wanted that to happen and for him to walk in!" :( I know this isn't true, but it's so annoying! Has anyone dealt with this? If you have, do you have any advice on how to deal with these thoughts?
I struggle so bad with intrusive thoughts. They can be so bad that I'll cry because I KNOW that's not how I feel or want to do. (Too embarrassed to say what they're about) I'll constantly try to figure out why I have them, and constantly figure out what they mean, causing me to constantly circle around and around. I had to get on anxeity meds, which helped a little but the thoughts still happen. How do you help yourself with this? How do you know that you're just not some physcopath? 😅
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