- Date posted
- 47w
CAN HAVING NO CONTROL IN MARRIAGE BE A TRIGGER??
So, I literally have no control over anything in my marriage. I never did. This week I took my daughter to a specialist after getting injured playing sports and then my husband insisted he was getting a second opinion. The second opinion was in agreement with the first doctor I took her to. He texted me that he told doctor he needed to discuss the appointment with me but what he really did was schedule a surgery behond my back when I already had scheduled a surgery. He knows nothing ago it then doctor I took her to but of course his doctor was better. He does this with everything in your lives abd when he does thibgs like this I can see my OCD symptoms escalate! I want to run and errabd and our cat would not start....(third time in a month) and I asked my husband when he-d be back from getting battery checked and he told my so neighbor outside could gear, "I DONT know. I don't havecOCD!" Then he sorta,looked at the neighbor. I took an anxiety pill cuz I felt so upset. I needed money from.bank and errands to run abd HE told me I waited till last minute. So how was I to know they car would not start??? He makes all decisions and blames me when things don't work out! Is he my trigger???? I cannot take being treated like some loser which by the way is just one of his NAMES for me! Can a person be a trigger? I really feel.like I am allergic to him!!!