- Date posted
- 51w
ROCD theme ex
Ex and I split 5 years ago, have a child together so remained completely platonic and friendly and done stuff as a 3. Zero feelings or attraction. Now I have a new partner and he has a new partner my anxiety has latched onto 'what if you still love him' and will give me thoughts of us being intimate which honestly are not appealing. Not even kissing. It feels awful like I'm mentally cheating even though I don't want him. He wanted me for years after and I turned him down so why is OCD triggered now. I'm distressed.