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I cant stop focusing on my breathing. Its affecting the way i eat, drink, talk , Sleep etc. any pointers???
I cant stop focusing on my breathing. Its affecting the way i eat, drink, talk , Sleep etc. any pointers???
Hey there!! I went through this terribly last year and into the beginning of this year. It sounds similar to having panic attacks. When you start focusing so much and becoming hyperaware of your own body. What helped me was someone had told me not to be afraid of anxiety. Because then it will be harder to face it. You can tell yourself “I’m breathing this way right now interesting. Anyway back to what I was doing.” There was a time where I focused so much on not breathing right j thought I was dying all the time and went to the doctors like 3 times a week. It was very hard
@Angel J K Thats how i am. Always at the doctors. I just switched therapists too so im having to sorta re-explain things. Its so hard lol.
@savvyl Something else I was told was that “anxiety symptoms can not actually physically harm us.” I remember a lot of my “issues” I would go to the doctors for weren’t actually issues once I would get the results back. But it wasn’t enough I would still go back for a new reason. I started NOCD at some point. And my therapist asked me, okay but what would happen if you did have something wrong, what would be scary about that, I would say “I’m scared to die” She would say “why” I said “because I’m afraid what if when I die I went to hell.” So that was actually my core fear. The root of the ocd. But yours might be different maybe it’s “I’m scared to die because I’m scared to leave my family.” If of your test results have been coming normal it’s most likely health obsessions OCD and they have a support group for that if you look around here on the app!! I watched a video and it said “anxiety is a projection into the future” sometimes we think our future self might not be able to handle something. But if that thing is not currently happening then there’s no need to stress about it. Someone also told me anxiety- starts to get our attention when something or things in our life maybe need to change. That have been going on for too long. Anxiety is an alarm system for us.
I’m going through this too and the only thing that helps me is to try to find something else to focus on to make me happy or try to do something that completely relaxes me. I’m sorry you’re going through it too.
@sadsparklegirl What relaxes you? I use the massage chair at home but when im not home im kinda screwed lol
@savvyl Oh yea when I’m not home and around people I sometimes have to go find a place to be alone, it’s when I’m around people that I’m more self conscious because I feel like they might be able to tell that I’m focusing on it too much too. When I’m not around people and I have to be in public I have my headphones in so I can listen to music and that helps to keep me more focused on something else.
If you’re having trouble eating and sleeping please talk to a doctor or psychiatrist (:
Hope this helps! https://www.treatmyocd.com/blog/what-is-somatic-ocd
I can't focus on anything but my thoughts. I'm so inside my head, and my mom always tells me to focus on my body and my surroundings, but I can't, or maybe I just don't know how. I try to, but it doesn't help. The thoughts are still there :(
I feel like I’m going to stop breathing and it makes it seem like an effort just to do it. I just want to be normal again and have my breathing go back to being automatic. Idk how to beat this, I’m constantly worried about it
Just wondering if anyone else has shortness of breath caused by anxiety? I’ve been going through a really tough three months anxiety wise (POTS flareup; grief; migraines; panic attacks etc etc). Two days ago a new symptom appeared and it’s knocked me. Shortness of breath 😭 bc I’ve got POTS I’ve had a lot of heart tests done (multiple ECGS, 24 hour holter monitor) which all came back fine apart from the obvious tachycardia that comes with POTS. I had an echocardiogram done on Monday but no results back yet, but I had a consultation with my doctor yesterday and she said that’s probably good news bc they don’t mess around when it comes to your heart. And also my doctor has urgently referred me to a mental health team for therapy bc I basically broke down on the phone to her. One thing I’m mostly panicking about is this shortness of breath. I’ve had it with panic attacks before but this is mainly anxiety riddled feels like my breathing is too noticeable/wheezy without actually PHYSICALLY being wheezy. I’ve done my oxygen and it always stays between 97-99% so I know I’m getting enough oxygen but it does not feel that way and it’s so scary !! I also had a clear chest xray about ten months ago. Idk I feel like I’m just spending every day scanning my body because it feels OFF. Then I’ll finally relax JUST before I fall asleep and all my symptoms disappear. Then I wake up, have a nice 20 seconds before I start scanning again. It’s exhausting. Just looking for some support :(
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