Anyone plz

Thank you 😊 but I really don't have friends I never chated. I call them like 2 times in a month. No job because of studies. Even if I do have friends I don't adjust myself in it. In functions and parties I feel like going home. My mom is the reason for little socialising but without her I couldn't. I'm not able to have friends again or that enjoyment.

@Sweetysalty You're welcome. 🙂 I completely understand. Most of us are alone. I know what you mean, but when you learn to manage your anxiety and OCD, life becomes easier. Try watching TV shows in your free time, reading books, exercising, or going for a walk. These activities will allow you to enjoy your life with OCD. And don't think you won't find any friends; you will. Life isn't always the same. Even now, you see this way. You are not alone; I am here for you whenever you need me.

@Amara Thank you so much 😊 you really relieved my anxiety depression and worries. If someone comfort you just by single text it really makes a difference both mentally and emotionally. I didn't have anyone to discuss to. Thank you for your time and replying me 😊

@Sweetysalty Any time 🙂Thank you so much for your kind words! It really means a lot to me that my message made a difference. I’m here if you ever need someone to talk to about anything you want. Take care of yourself.

@Amara Your welcome. Yes sure I will remember you 😊

Hi! Of course I remember you—and I do think about you! I even check sometimes to see if you’ve posted anything. I’m really sorry it took me so long to reply. For some reason, the app didn’t show me a notification for your comment. I only saw it now because I went back to answer the post you deleted. I always get notifications for comments on older posts, so I honestly have no idea why I missed yours—it was important to me. I’m so sorry I missed it earlier. And Thank you for reaching out and being so honest about how you’re feeling. That said, I totally get your wish to connect more socially—it’s a natural feeling. And it’s great that you’re already doing small things like walking, staying in touch by phone, and staying close to your family. Those things really matter. Here are a few gentle steps you could try: 1. Reconnect with old friends – Just a simple message like “Hey, I was thinking about you” can go a long way. 2. Find low-pressure social spaces – Maybe a class, a hobby group, or even volunteering. It gives you structure and a reason to talk to new people. 3. Go at your own pace – You don’t need to rush or become super social overnight. One genuine connection can mean a lot.

Thank you so much it really means a lot you saved me from depression and anxiety I feel more relieved. Thank you 😊. It's ok I do understand your problem but I read previous msg of yours to get relieved. Yes I'm trying to stay away from social media from now on and the thing is I want to wear what I love but also not allowed to I have to hide it and also when I do it I feel like may be I should discuss with my family that I did that just incase if I came in danger. Also all day I will be thinking of poses and ideas. But it is tiring. Even if I want to do these things I should feel happy and comfortable while doing it without any fear of doing now and pressure of doing right now. Those points I will definately follow and do it. Thank you so much for sharing your story you are so brave I don't know how did you fight alone and overcome with problems. Thank you once again 😊

@Sweetysalty You're welcome 🙂 I really see how much you’re carrying. I know things still feel the same, and it can be incredibly frustrating when nothing seems to move forward, especially when you're trying your best. I remember what you shared before too, and I’m so sorry it’s been heavy for this long. I also want to say—I missed your comment from 11 weeks ago, and I’ve felt awful about it. That wasn’t okay, especially after I said I’d be here for you whenever you needed me. Please know it wasn’t on purpose. I truly care about you, and I’m really glad I saw it again so I could finally reply. This time, I'll definitely check this post and my notifications more often from now on. About everything you said—I can imagine how alone it must feel. Wanting to have friends or feel part of something, but also feeling like you don’t quite fit in anymore—that’s such a lonely place to be. I want to gently remind you: your mind might tell you you’re different or falling behind, but that’s not the truth.You’re just going through something that takes time, and that’s okay.and you’re not doing anything wrong. And I know OCD makes it even harder. Like feeling you have to plan everything just right, worry about doing things “correctly,” or overthink what you should or shouldn’t say or do. But you don’t have to fix everything. You don’t have to make big changes all at once. Even one small, imperfect step is more than enough. About your family being strict—I totally understand how that adds another layer of stress. When you feel like you constantly have to hide or plan around them, it’s like you never get to fully breathe or just be yourself. And if one day you feel ready to try something new—whether that’s messaging someone, taking a class or go to gym, or applying for something—do it just for you. Not because you have to, or to prove anything. Just because it feels right for you. But here’s something to hold onto: when you can’t change the outside situation (like family rules), sometimes you have to find your freedom within. That means focusing on what you can control—your mindset, your values, and doing things that make you proud. You don’t need to wear certain clothes or post certain photos just to feel valid or free. You can express yourself in small, confident ways that still honor your boundaries. Real confidence is being yourself even when the environment isn’t easy. And just because your version of freedom looks different than someone else’s doesn’t make it less meaningful. In fact, it shows how strong you are—balancing everything you’re going through and still wanting to grow. Please remember: your pace is okay. Your heart matters.

@Amara Thank you 😊. I will try my best to accept my boundaries and stay happy and feel confident within my boundaries.

@Sweetysalty Anytime 🙂