peterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m sorry you’re not good.
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I love you❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I love you too you are a home to me
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m good. It makes me so happy that I’m a home to you❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m good. How are you?❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I think you have it right or almost right. I would say it really hurts to see the beauty of the world and not be able to live it.
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
Thank you chelsea❤️ I miss you
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
You’re always welcome Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️. I’m here for you too❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
It’s going good❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
That’s good to hear my dear friend❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I’d love to!
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
She has a great voice. I’ll listen to it now.
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I did❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Now I have one for you if you want❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I do wantt❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Phillip Phillips Gone Gone Gone
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Let’s listen to it
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I liked it❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
Yay!!!😁. It’s probably my favorite love song.
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
I’m here now❤️❤️. Did you have a good time with your friends?❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
Everything is going well. I’m trying to work on my writing.
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
I’m sorry.
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m glad your eating is better❤️❤️. Thank you for being with me❤️❤️. I’m here for you too❤️❤️. I love you my dear Peter❤️❤️. Goodnight❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
I miss you❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
No Peter I don’t feel that way❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Well I always love your hugs❤️❤️❤️❤️ I’m doing good. How are you?❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
I love you❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I love you too❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
You don’t know what you mean to me❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
You dont know too You are really really really important to me❤️ I wish you be happy forever chelsea❤️
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
I’m so happy and thankful for having you in my life
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I love you
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I love you too my dear Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
It’s finally over the long day is over and you are here with me
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
I love you
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I’ll keep you in prayer my dear friend!❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 4y
It’s okay Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️. I’m giving you a big warm hug❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 4y
I love you my dear Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
No of course not my dear friend❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
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- 4y
I love you soo much❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
I love you so much too❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
How are you today my dear Chelsea❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
I’m good❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
There’s something I’ve been wanting to tell you but I keep forgetting.
peterateffpeterateff
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- 4y
That’s good to hear❤️❤️❤️ Tell me nowwww❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 4y
I want you to come so bad too❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Tell me how are you my friend
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
Are you really good?
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
I love you plese pray for me its a very bery hard time for me ..please dont forget ir be bored of me I love you Goodnight chelsea i hope you are really good I’m soo sorry i have to sleep i really want to escape
CatladyCatlady
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I love you too Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️. I love you so much❤️❤️❤️❤️. I really am good. I’m praying for you and I never ever get bored of you❤️❤️❤️❤️. Goodnight my dear Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
My desr chelsea i hope you are all right..i will close my phone for a while like a week or maybe more ..i love you dont worry about me i will miss you soo much but i think this will help..take a good care of yourself and be happy chelsea you sre soo beautiful❤️❤️ I love you❤️
CatladyCatlady
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I love you too Peter❤️❤️. I hope this will help you❤️❤️. I’m praying for you❤️❤️. I’ll miss you too❤️❤️ Did you get a new phone? Will you still be able to email me?
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
Hiw ate you chelsea
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Are you okay?❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m not
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Can you help me right something in the right way... i was writing something and i want to say in it that it really hurts to see they beauty of the world without the ability to live it ..can you plesse put it in the best way?
CatladyCatlady
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You’re welcome Peter❤️❤️. I miss you too!❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I love you Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
I’m so sad so so sad chelsea it’s a nightmare inwant to go far away from all of this people just do anything toll i die chelsea it’s a really really weird that from 7 billion one i’m like that
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
Chelsea i cant express what i want to say
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
It’s alot i cant express it
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I understand what you’re saying Peter. I’m so sorry you’re hurting.
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Why do you want to go away from everyone?
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
Because I’m so different i don’t deserve them they are like my mirror i see how bad i am when i look at them..i feel I’m lying to them
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
I don’t understand all your thoughts, but the ones I do understand don’t seem to be who you are in your heart❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
I love you so so much❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
If you see them and be with them youu will definitely stop loving me But i really do love you too
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Oh no Peter I wouldn’t stop loving you❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
I love you no matter how anyone else is❤️❤️❤️❤️. I believe you are a good person, but I love you no matter what❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
You don’t know how much joy you bring me❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
You made me cry❤️ thank you chelsea i wish i be with you for the rest of it❤️
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
I lost all my hair
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Why what happened?
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I dont know i think because of my mental health
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m so sorry Peter. How are you today?
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m giving you a hug,how are you?
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m giving you a hug too❤️❤️. I’m good❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
How are you Peter?❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I know you’re not doing well Peter. I love you so very much❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Are you here my dear Peter?❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m here chelsea❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
So good to hear that you are good
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
How the writing is going mu dear
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Do you want to listen a song?❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Adele dont you remember
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Did you like it?❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I love you I’m giving you a big hug ..I’m going to this place with my friends wish me a good time
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
You are soo beautiful
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
I will talk to you as soon as i come back
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Thank you Peter❤️❤️. I hope you have a good time❤️❤️. I’m looking to talking with you when you get back❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
I’m giving you a big hug too my dear Peter❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
And I love you to❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
*too
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Chelseaaaa❤️😂
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Hello!❤️😂
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I wannaaaaa ask a girly question
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
❤️😂
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Of a girl said to a boy you have a baby face is that a compliment like something good or bad?❤️😂
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
I’m not sure but I think it just means you have a youthful face😂
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
Oh I thought it’s like a really good thing😂😂😂😂❤️👊🏾
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
It’s okay❤️😂
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I missed you❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Not really but it was okay❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m sorry
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Do you still have your fever?
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Yes!
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
But i think it’s better than before but it still exists
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
But the good news that i dont care my friend I don’t care if i have hiv i will live till it end me like i dont care❤️😂
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
If you come to the US will you get tested?
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I think i will but I’m not sure my deat
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Let it go it’s okay❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I understand. I just want you to be okay❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
@Catlady Don’t worry chelseaaa❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Telll meeee
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
How is everything goingggt
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Our movie get postponed several times😂
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
I think we should watch it soon
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I think you’re right☺️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
How is everything going for you?❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Not soo good my dear but it’s okay❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
It’s okay❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
You are so beautiful❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Thank you❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
How has your eating been?❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Better chelsea❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m with you forever in anything
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Goodnight❤️ ( be happy❤️)
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I miss you too❤️❤️ Can i asm a weird question?❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Like sara keep saying that she misses me and I’m not here anymore Do you like feel the same way that the old peter not here anymore and like you miss him?
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
That’s good my friend❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
How much does Sara know about what you’re going through?
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
Not much my friend..it really puts a load on me she wants me to do thinfs and talk like before and i really cant
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
And it hurts me
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m sorry my dear Peter. I understand how that must hurt you. Do you think there’s anything you can tell her?
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m hugging you
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m hugging you too❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
What’s going on my sweet friend?❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Nothing i just wanted to hug you❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
How are you my dear chelsea?❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m okay❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Are you really okay?❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Not really😅
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Thank you Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️. That means so much to me❤️❤️❤️❤️. I’m so happy and thankful for you too and I want you to be happy forever too❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
I’m so sad
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m here my dear Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
What’s on your mind?❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Chelsea i think of sara’s mother in a very bad way..she is everything to sara her everything
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
If sara knew that i did that she will never talk to me again
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
And her mother loves me as if i am her son
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
Chelsea no
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
I’m sorry you had these thoughts Peter.
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I still love you Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Are these thoughts how you really feel about her? I’m not judging you. I’m just trying to understand.
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
No
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
Chelsea no i dont even see her
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
Were they an emotional reaction? Like for example sometimes when people get angry with each other they think angry or violent thoughts about the person they’re angry with.
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
Sometimes it be like a reaction and sometimes without anytime
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
Anything*
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
My dear friend you’re more normal than you believe❤️❤️. It’s normal to have bad thoughts when you get angry. Maybe it’s wrong to have them but everyone has them when they get angry. They don’t mean you’re a weird person❤️❤️ I don’t understand all of your other thoughts but I still believe at least some of them are normal and not from your heart❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
How are you feeling?❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Chelsea leave me
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
My dear Peter I can’t do that❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
You mean so so much to me❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
Are you here my dear Peter?❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m so sad so so sad I’m soo evil and bad
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 5y
I love you so so much my dear dear Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️. I’m hugging you so close❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
You’re going to get through this my dear Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️. It’s going to be okay❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
Chelsea everything is okay I’m not i’m evil i don’t deserve to be okay
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
My dear Peter I want you to be okay❤️❤️❤️❤️. I want you to get better❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
Would you like to talk about what happened that is making you so sad?❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
I had a nice day today!
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
I dont know how i had terrible thoughts but the day was good indont know if this is good or bad! But it wasn’t a bad day
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
Did you really have a good day?❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 5y
Yes chelsea i did❤️ How was your day❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
I’m glad you had a good day Peter!❤️❤️❤️❤️. My day was long but good❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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I love you too my sweet friend❤️❤️❤️❤️. I’m happy to be here with you❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
Have you gone biking lately?
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
Chelsea
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
I’m going to enter the embassy soon..
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
I’m scared😂
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
How are you my dear friend( I’m sorry I didn’t reply yesterday i slept without knowing😅(
CatladyCatlady
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- 5y
It’s okay❤️. I’m good. How are you?❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
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- 5y
I’m soo depressed chelsea You are so beautiful
CatladyCatlady
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- 4y
Thank you Peter❤️❤️. I’m sorry you’re depressed. I love you❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
Chelsea
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
I’m here my dear Peter❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
Csn you please chelsea go❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
Please just go
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
Please chelsea please do it now
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
My dear friend I know you’re in pain. I’m so sorry.
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
I can’t leave you Peter. It would be terrible.
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
I love you and I’m here for you my dear Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
Chelsea i have a dear friend he is so close to me he is sad and depressed these times And he posted something about suicide and i had a feeling and a thought that i want him to do that and i dont care Chelsea i’m not a person anyone could be with
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
I’m so sorry this happened. I don’t know what that thought and feeling was from but even if it was from your heart I believe you’re more upset about this than you think because you want me to leave.
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
Yes I’m so upset i had this feeling and thought chelsea it’s not normal
peterateffpeterateff
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- 4y
I’m a really bad person
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
Did you have it as an emotional reaction to something? Can you think of anything that made you have that thought and feeling?
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
I don’t know i think lately I’m a little mad at him!
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
Oh my dear friend if you’ve been mad at him it might be a more normal thought than you think. It’s a bad thought but I believe it may be normal.
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
People often have bad thoughts when they’re angry with someone.
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
I know you felt like you want him to do that, but angry thoughts and feelings often aren’t what we truly want.
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
Hug me
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
I’m so sorry
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
You dont see me any differently or mad at me?
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
I have a relative that died several years ago. I’m not sure if I even met her but she lived in Egypt for a while!
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
Really!!
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
Donyou know where in egypt!
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
Unfortunately I don’t. I’d have to ask someone who knew her better😅
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
That’s cool my friend i bet she were in Hurghada or louxor!
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
Cause these places have so many foreigners❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
I want to come to the us soo bad😂❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
I really want to see it
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
In dont thing i would come soon😅
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
Think
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
Why not?
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
I’m really depressed i csnt take it anymore
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
I’m here my dear Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
I’m insane
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
I’m really insane
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
I’m sorry you’re in so much pain Peter. I love you so much❤️❤️❤️❤️
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
Why do you feel like you’re insane my dear Peter?
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
Are you here my dear friend?❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
Im so tiered I’m so sorry please leave me
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
It’s going to be okay my dear Peter❤️❤️❤️❤️. You’re going to get through this❤️❤️❤️❤️
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
I cant anymore
peterateffpeterateff
- Date posted
- 4y
Omg i cant i reallu vant
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
Are you thinking about hurting or hurting yourself?
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
My dear Peter please please say something. I’m so worried about you right now.
CatladyCatlady
- Date posted
- 4y
Are you thinking about hurting or killing yourself?
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