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The lies OCD tells us
What’s the biggest lie OCD has told you?
What’s the biggest lie OCD has told you?
All or nothing/black and white thinking. When a 1% chance of something bad happening feels the same as a 99% chance. When OCD makes the assumption that the worst case scenario must be true, and will definitely happen, and there’s no other option.
This gooooood - you're right that when there's a 1% change something bad could happens, it might as well 99% chance to OCD.
That the thoughts are real…
OCD can feel incredibly real - one of the worst parts about OCD! The realness can create a sense of urgency.
That you’re unforgivable and don’t deserve to be happy
That my thoughts would become reality or worse; have already happened. It warps anything it can into making you and others seem evil and very tricky to pick yourself up.
That my thoughts are reality. That my worst fears are coming true right before my eyes; and that seeking therapy to undo this is just sticking my head in the sand and pretending things are ok when they're really not.
@HopefulMindedMan I’ve had the same thought! That therapy is just distracting me from the reality of it all. But I try to remind myself, even if that is true, at least therapy helps me feel better in the here and now (even if its sticking my head in the sand). Ignorance can be bliss if we allow it.
That I am a bad person.
Same
That you don't have OCD
!!!!!!
That your traped by your ocd and you cannot get out. That you cannot have a good life anyway.
That this will never heal
That I’m going to act on them and want them to happen
That this feeling is gonna last forever.
There's so much hope for a beautiful and full life despite having OCD!
“Just ask for reassurance one last time and you’ll be all set. You’ll never have to ask again”
@RH6778 OMG how legit lol
...just to find out that it's NEVER "one last time"
That I will never have power to escape it's grasp. Luckily, with ERP and my faith, I now know that is not true!
That the obsessive, horrific, terrifying thoughts are worth paying attention to. They’re not.
Yep... such a common one OCD likes to tell us. Giving the thoughts a reaction will only reinforce the that the fear is real!
That everything about myself has changed - my identity, my morals, and my values.
That if I just figure this out, I will have peace
That my thoughts and feelings mean it’s real/true.
Nobody else struggles with these things.
You're definitely not alone!
That I am a monster.
That I’m crazy.
That I’m faking ocd and I’m making it all up
That I’m in denial and secretly desire for it to happen
The "in denial" feeling can be so frustrating!
That the intrusive thoughts have value- they don’t! 🧘🏼♀️
That you can make it go away by figuring it out !!
oooo good one
That there is no light at the end of the tunnel.
There's ALWAYS hope.. even if the darkest of times.
I am always on edge. Scared I might snap and lose control. That these thoughts mean there is a crisis.
you’re having these thoughts on purpose and God doesn’t forgive you!
I have the same thoughts!!
I am the person that I fear I am
That the feelings that come associated with the thought that popped into your mind are real. That the questioning you do in your mind over and over will solve it. Anyone else have a thought at the same exact time you perform an action and your mind goes into a spiral questioning if you did that action because you had that thought first and acted on it? Anyways that.
@Broward Yes! The thoughts popping up during an action I'm doing making me wonder, why I did what I did are very disturbing and absolutely horrible.
@Broward Yeppppp rumination is my greatest downfall
That the thoughts define who you are as a person
That if it feels real it is
That I have to have everything clean and perfect to be happy and content
That I’m stuck in my thought patterns and that I always will be. That they will prevent me from truly living.
@poodle888 This has been my main obsession lately
That because I did a bad thing, it means I'm a bad person
@TrustTheProcess Amen to this!!!
That everything is not fine but it is.
@Foxfurry99 So true!
That you like it
A very common one!
That you can’t trust your own judgement
That it’s keeping from danger and that this time is different
You’re not going to feel better until I push you to do the one thing you don’t want to do!
That you are on the verge of something terrible happening because of X or Y thing happening.
So common! You're not the only one struggling with this. OCD's such a liar!
That my mentation is thinking and that thinking can save me.
That I was possessed and was turning gay without me wanting to and that I was on the brink of psychosis lmao 🤣
@Anonymous Oh and that I was being punished by god for not living a righteous life
@Anonymous Fr
No one will ever understand so carry this to your grave
I won't discuss my thoughts with anyone. How do you manage?
That I cannot trust that it's just OCD and isn't me being right about the future instead.
That urges mean I really want to do it
that i’m just convincing myself that i want my partner and i that im actually a liar and a fake
That’s all my thoughts and feelings are facts
that i don’t have ocd
OCD's nickname is the doubting disorder - it'll even doubt your own diagnosis!
This time, I will never go away.
“Unless you can eliminate any and all uncertainty behind this thought it is 100% going to happen.”
Yep. Thanks for this awareness!
that i’m never going to “get better” or that I won’t be able to do erp “right” and i’ll be unhappy forever
OCD's such a liar!
That I don’t love my partner, I made a mistake for picking him and the feelings for him are all gone/fake.
That it’s inevitable that I lose control or starting planning something terrible unless I take action right now to deter horrible things from happening. OCD truly is the thief of joy.
And that I’m the only one.
I am punished, I am possessed by Satan, God hates me, if i actually want this
That it’s keeping us safe.
That my thoughts are valid and I should be thinking over and over like this cause what I had done in past is shameful . That if everyone gets to know the reality of me, they'll despise me. I don't know if it's lie though.
That there's no escape and that it is always right
Hello I'm Kevin, hope everyone is having a great day 😀
That I am dying of a heart attack
That I might forget to breathe
That God Hates me
And that I want to hurt myself
I am a liar and a bad person.
thats what i feel too, i feel like my intrusive thoughts are manifesting even though i try to push them away. and when i pray i still get them telling me that that won't help.
If I don’t do a certain thing (compulsion) then the result is all my fault
OCD's such a liar!
@Brenna - NOCD Team Member Amen!
@Brenna - NOCD Team Member Amen!
My dad has manipulated my aunt with mental health and I'm afraid it will happen to me
You need to deal with this now!!
Tell me more!!
@JakeOak Or one of the likers can…?
That Im not worthy of love rest and care. That theres no point in continuing to try to manage my symptoms. That OCD is here to help.
You're more than worthy of love, rest, and care. NOCD is here for you!
That "insert" person don't love you, and will try to leave or abandon you
Oh, that one is brutal. Uhhh
That you have to say a specific thing to someone in a specific way in order to get rid of your obsession.
That if I think about something impulsively that it will come true. Then the repetitive thought occurring so much will make me question or believe it’s how I feel.
That I want to hurt people
That I dont believe God exist
SO many lies…that I want to and am capable of killing my family. That I want to die. That I am a psychopath and a serial killer. That I will live in fear for the rest of my life and never get better.
That I can and have to know with 100% certainty that something is right. Any doubt means it's wrong.
Needing 100% certainty is the biggest trap!
that everthings that’s happening is reality
That the only way to make my bad thoughts go away are to think them away 🤦🏻♀️
Therapy is trying to district me.
There is no way
that my thoughts are my fault
That im a disgusting monster
A post I made it's because I want my friend to kiss me lol, OCD is stupid
Lie: You don't deserve to be loved, you haven't earned it. Truth: Love is a law, not a reward.
That I am dying
That if I don't do the cycle I feel like I prioritize bad people more than my loved ones...
Yes! I relieve a stressful event i shouldn't have said this or that. I shouldn't have had a tone to me what if someone send i was uncomfortable. Jeeeezzz!!!
Also the constant belief tht is I complete my rituals that my obsessions/impulsive thoughts will reside
That something bad will happen if I do not listen to that voice in my brain
@sophielove Same! Sending love and light!
To go back and check literally on everything 🥹
That I had a brain injury in the past and now I have harm ocd, so which one is it? Are the thoughts real from the brain injury, or is this truly harm ocd?
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