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The "black and white" OCD brain is completely binary, and fails to exist in that middle space. So when I got this thought, it spurred on suicidal OCD. Why? Because my black and white brain said "well if you can't figure out right now why you're alive, then you must want to be dead." Or "depressed people can't see the good in life so you must be depressed, and soon you'll be suicidal . And people don't recover from that." It's ridiculous when I type it out, but it makes sense to me. That's the OCD problem. It doesn't operate on logic.
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I feel the EXACT same way that you do. These thoughts have sent me down the OCD rabbit hole for a little over a year now. I think it's important to question our being. Why are we doing what we do? I think a large majority of people don't even do that. But, at least for me, I know that it's been hijacked by OCD because there is no middle ground. For example, I think there's a meaning to everything or there isn't. However, what about a middle ground? Accept the fact that you'll figure it out or you simply don't know right now or thinking about it doesn't impair your goals and day to day life?
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I struggle with the same. Honestly I feel like I'm just waiting for these thoughts to hit me so I'll have another breakdown.
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The first option fits the best
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With existential ocd how long does your thought last
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Its more of a whole life change. Everything you do now relates to your new way of thinking. So i could be doing anything and ask myself why am i doing it, whats the benefit, whats the meaning and its like woah i never thought of that before, its like reality was at the back of my mind and now been pushed to the front. Why would i want to go watch football Old me: you know, the excitement to win, ive always supported them New me: ye its 22 people running round a pitch to hit a ball in a net that realistically means nothing. So its more accept the reality of things and dont think in to it
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I'd be happy to talk more if you want my email address.
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I’d to talk more with people about this one
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@corey My email is jmtaglienti96@gmail.com. Feel free to write to me
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the concept of death & existence is ruining my life rn 😭 im losing so much sleep. i try to close my eyes & all my brain wants to do is try to wrap itself around the idea of what not existing feels like & i get this sinking feeling that grows & grows until my eyes snap open & i have to go back on my phone to distract myself until im literally too exhausted to keep my head up & my body forces me to sleep. it makes having the motivation to do anything hard because all i can think is "it wont matter when i die". it sucks because i know that having MORE in my life might actually improve this, im 21 unemployed still living at home with ASD & i know once i have a job that will definitely give me more to focus on & other stresses to have lol, but i feel like im stuck in the endless cycle of "not having a life makes me worried im wasting my life & itll all be over so fast" & then "being so stressed about my life & time passing is exhausting & makes it too hard to find the motivation to do anything other than sit here" & repeat. spirituality is hard because i like thinking that way, like afterlife & shit, but i worry that im just "in denial" & using it as an unhealthy coping mechanism that leads to magical thinking thoughts. then its like i have some sort of meta ocd spiral obsessing over if what im doing is bad & unhealthy for my ocd or not. i LIKE being spiritual but im worrying im hurting myself & doing a compulsion thinking that way. it also doesnt help that religious spaces have hurt & traumatized so many people & im terrified of being apart of a "delusional" community that spreads a false narrative & attacks anyone that doesnt agree with them. i know i am not like that but i worry im still apart of the problem even thinking this way. at the end of the day no one knows the truth, no one knows what happens after death. im just struggling to sit with the uncertainty. it is so late rn idk of any of my words make sense lol
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I’m currently reading existential psychotherapy by Irvin yalom. In his chapter.. “meaninglessness” the first paragraph he describes about a man who ended his life because he truly was overwhelmed with the “meaninglessness of life” and how doing absolutely anything was meaningless because it ended it death. The questions drove him insane and he committed. This was stated in this book and he also stated multiple people did end there life’s during an overwhelming meaning crisis. Please help. If anyone has been through this please reach out. I have stopped going to my nursing shifts. I’ve lost all hope. I believe I’m going through a horrible existential crisis. I’ve suffered from ocd my whole life but I think this might not be existential ocd. I can’t seem to create meaning in my life. I can’t seem to live without us having an inherent meaning. No answers or anything is helping. I’m really struggling. Please.
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Existential ocd is deeply affecting me. A lot of people say death is equally as meaningless, I do agree, however, if life is mostly suffering and anxiety to me, then death is not as equally meaningless. It seems logical. I have severe ocd and my life is just suffering, so if life is meaningless, it’s logical for me to not see a reason to keep going. I’m not necessarily depressed. Just incredibly aware of how pointless this all is? There’s no end goal to any of this. It baffles me of how people can care about money and materialistic things, because what’s the point? You’ll die in the end and nothing will matter. ****please please please do not tell me to get into religion I’m begging you****
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