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OCD and superstitions
Do superstitions like Friday the 13th trigger your OCD?
Do superstitions like Friday the 13th trigger your OCD?
Yes, lately I have been super paranoid about crows. They say that crows are a sign of misfortune and bad omens.
I had a thing with crows too. They were just messengers telling me to pay attention to my immediate future. Whether it was good or bad news wasn't their fault š I. Also had a thing with other animals like foxes and frogs. They seemed to have appeared at very convenient times.
@Motionless I had a therapist who clearly didnāt know how to deal with my OCDās fascination with birds and crows in particular. Like that was more made up than the rest of the obsessions. He wasnāt my therapist much longer after that.
@Motionless This is relatable! You are not alone!
@Motionless Yes, I was just having a conversation about this yesterday actually, it makes me kind of anxious how the first ever time I opened this app this is what I see when I was JUST talking about it š³
@lmikowski37@gmail.com Wow very spooky but also great to know that I am not the only one
13 and 666 used to trigger me a lot.
@Newerthannewb82 Thatās me rn I see 13 every where
You're definitely not alone here!
@Crystalv18 Remember there are only ten digits. They are going to repeat.
@Newerthannewb82 Oh yeah me too, but Iāve been told by my sister that the more your overthinking about that things or if itās consuming our minds itās going to keep appearing, I donāt believe in manifestation I just pray, but my sister says itās a form of manifestation, and when OCD gets involved it can be hard to not stop ruminating on that thought so I totally understand where your coming from because I struggle with Religion OCD, overall your not alone we will get through this, God Bless youš«¶š»šš¼
@Newerthannewb82 Same! Remember, we are stronger than our OCD!
I never say good bye because I fear it will mean forever if I say it, I only say see ya later
You're definitely not alone! OCD loves to latch on to certain phrases.
I believe so, Iām not sure if I have ocd but often times since Iāve been told all my life that thereās always a reason for something I feel like Iām always paranoid about āsignsā from the universe
13 is a lucky number in Italy!!!! š®š¹
I have spent over 30 years having a morbid fear of Sundays. Iām not talking about āthe Sunday scaries,ā I literally get sick, have panic attacks, canāt sleep, canāt do anything to stop it. I start dreading Sundays on Friday and spiral from there. It started with a concussion when I was 10, some memory loss and forgetting to complete an assignment for school. Mix in some OCDā¦fun recipe for disaster every single week. FINALLY with ERP, I have had about a month without the dreaded Sundays. Itās just another dayā¦šš»
Most definitely.
Used to have the superstition that I HAD to make a wish at 11:11 if I saw it on the clock and the had to look away for exactly two minutes or it wouldn't come true. This was something my mom who also had OCD used to force me to do.
Yup, saying āsee you laterā or something wont happen is jinxing it. And a crow means deathā¦ but this one isnt too bad for me, mainly the jinx ones
@MHJ24 Relatable. OCD is so obnoxious! Remember, we are stronger than our OCD!
@MHJ24 I always have to say āknock on woodā.. itās constant
No as Iām an atheist
-sort of- if iām scrolling and i see one of those skip and something bad will happen video sends me into panic i know if i interact with them ill just get more of those kind of videos but i feel like something bad will happen so i have to pray for a few minutes after seeing one
@mellautumn05 but i very much have to knock on wood and tell my family to drive safe after i see them
Yes! It was odd because I normally have issues with the (9.11) numbers and now itās like oooh 13th in December is creepyā¦ like okay then. š
@N_Obispo Me rn!
I thought I was the only one(with 9:11)
@N_Obispo Youāve got this! We CAN do hard things!
@Crystalv18 Youāre not alone!
Wow, completely new to this app. Soon as I opened it I saw the ācrowsā superstition and had to make a double takeā¦I fought with that when I bought my new home. Crow landed on my front porch during walk through and I felt doomedā¦wow
Welcome to the community! So happy you're here!!
Absolutely! I hate to admit it, but I'm secretly so much more superstitious than I often think I am. I think growing up in a Catholic home with parents that sent me to a small private Catholic school K-8th grade really just exacerbated my obsessive beliefs, thoughts, and paranoia. I had a HUGE fear of the devil and demons growing up, and I remember once I accidently saw a scene from The Exorcist from the 1960s somewhere online when I was about 10, and I had to sleep in my mom's bed with the lights on and a "friendly, safe" show or movie blaring on the TV. It's like when you tell a child not to say a certain word, and suddenly they want to say it constantly. But with me, I'd know that I shouldn't continue to bring up the traumatic scene that had only furthered my fear of "evil", but the more I tried to push the thought away, the more intense and jarring and gruesome the thought/image in my mind become and it would just play on a loop randomly in my mind for several minutes that could be triggered by various different things. I'm now 30 years old and have since left the Catholic religion. However, I am very spiritual and have found my own way of connecting with God, Spirit, Source, Light, The Universe, etc. But you bet your a** I'm saying the "Our Father" and "Hail Mary" over my family and friends every single night of my life before I fall asleep or else someone I love will certainly perish!
@mads444 Thank you so much for taking the time to share some of your story with us! Always remember that you are not alone and you are stronger than your OCD!
Cultural superstitions are big for me. If I spill salt I absolutely have to toss it over my shoulder. Iāll freak out if someone sweeps my feet. And I canāt look owls in the eyes. In the grand scheme of things itās not too bad but š¤·š»āāļø
Yes, I used to say knock on wood anytime I said something that I was scared I would make happen by saying it. Then I heard that phrase comes from summoning tree spirits/demons or something and now Iām too scared to say it
Since COVID I have been paranoid of getting sick. So much so that I wear a mask wherever I go.
@Anonymous That sounds difficult. Remember, you are stronger than your OCD!
A little it was way worse as a kid.
I never thought superstitions as OCD until I started doing the therapy. š i used to have flareups of seeing 6:13 on the clock and was convinced it was a time that something terrible would happed or happened at that time. š
Whenever I see an image of a devil or demon I feel evil lurks behind it
It used to a lot. Now it kind of makes its own superstitions. I don't know how to say it.
Yes. For me itās knocking on wood or jinxās.
@Ashleighnf this is a big one for me! initially it was a very thoughtful action, every time i saw wood of any kind i had to knock three times on it. Now it's become very much muscle memory and it doesn't bother me
Yes š I hate to feel unlucky
@ciriomo Youāre not alone! Remember, you are stronger than your OCD!
I have crows reminding me of not a good past have ptsd
No, not a trigger
I was watching a TV show of my mom's and they said in native American culture how when you see a coyote it's bad luck and I get scared that since I live in the desert, once I see one, I'm going to kill me and my boyfriend in a car crash
@Anonymous Iāve had this thought before too.
@Anonymous It is so scary like I literally saw one and I went into a shock. My chest was so tight
Yeah, sometimes I ruminate on a whole scenario where a scary masked killer breaks in to murder me š¤£
I had a therapist who clearly didnāt know how to deal with my OCDās fascination with birds and crows in particular. Like that was more made up than the rest of the obsessions. He wasnāt my therapist much longer after that.
Yes it f*cking sucks
@murdererofcomputers You are not alone! Remember, we CAN do hard things! No matter how hard OCD tries to convince us otherwise!
Yes they do all the time and they scare me to death
@anthonycaronna You are not alone! Remember, you are stronger than your OCD!
Yes
@Mindy62 You are not alone! ā¤ļø
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Too much. Too much.
Yes, the phrase āknock on wood so you donāt jinx yourself.ā I knock on wood everytine i get an intrusive thought, and sometimes i feel the need to knock on wood for a long time just to āreverseā it.
YES omg, i feel like something bad is going to happen all day and it exacerbates everything ugh
knocking on wood. iāll pull over and find a free, frantically search for wood until i can find it so i do not rejoin the future
@HappyBappy54! *ruin the future
@HappyBappy54! As a kid I was told if there isnāt wood nearby, to knock on my head! This honestly has helped me with this same issue because my head is always available lol. Donāt knock too hard!!
āKnocking on woodā or āan eyelash will give you good luck if you wishā
For sure, Iām afraid to say lots of things if there isnāt wood around to knock on. I also have to knock 3 times since once isnāt enough and 2 times (or an even number) will jinx it. Sometimes this doesnāt feel like enough and I believe Iām talking bad things into existence so I donāt say these things
@penelopeva The 3x thought process also came from when I was younger and would cross my fingers 3 ways at once for good luck (an odd number would cancel it out)
I also spent my entire childhood thinking that if I did anything wrong my parents were going to beat me and then god was going to kill me. Lots of trauma thereā¦
The number 13 overall really triggers me.
@andiwandi Relatable!
Yes, black cats and birds, thoughts, numbers, dreams, etc.
Yes. I have to wear certain things when it feels like things are going wrong. Like, when my daughter was sick and my son was 2000 miles away, I had to wear a locket with their initials on it or I thought bad things would happen.
All the goddamn time
YES! I've never been superstitious but I have to knock on the wall or my head 3 times if I think of something bad.
Always have to smile and through a peace sign any and every time I pass a mirror. Itās ridiculous and Iāve had this for as long as I can remember :/
I grew up in a superstitious household, my mom always talking about how ā____ equals bad luckā or ādoing ____ will give bad luck.ā For some reason I latched onto the word āLuckā for a really long while. (multiple years.) where I refused to say it or even think it because i made it synonymous with doom and convinced myself if I said it that something horrible would happen. Looking back now, It could have been any word but my brain just picked something random to catastrophize lol. ocd sucks
For me its the āknock on woodā + somatic ocd that is tough.
No, not at all. I'm an atheist and a sceptic. š I did love the dark-comedy Inside No. 9 tv show episode on it, though (Paraskevidikatriaphobia, which is the official name for a phobia of Friday 13th). The scriptwriters sliiiiiightly changed the meaning of Exposure Therapy for dramatic effect (it's done without the patient's consent in the episode, whereas in real life it's always done with explicit consent), but that didn't spoil my enjoyment of it at all š
I used to have to avoid certain drains, cracks in roads, I'd count magpies. One day I figured whatever I was doing for luck it wasn't working. Stopped almost everyone almost at once.
Yes they do. I once heard that if you walked on your Universities seal you would never graduate. Ever since then I will go out of my way to not walk on any of them no matter the inconvenience.
Yes! I had a bad obsession/superstition about the numbers 13 and 666. There are some others that still come up for me, but I canāt think of them right now.
Yes, it used to be really bad. But now I force myself to ignore it and nothing bad has happened
It definitely got to volunteer my biggest fears. Thatās for dang sure! unlearning that this is supposed to mean something deep and dark about myself has been a challenge but Iām learning.OCD is a damn trickster. Thatās all it is!
In a way. I struggle with what I think may be religious OCD as a result of being exmormon. Because of this I have superstitions that are specific to the mormon religion that have wormed their way into my thinking especially now after leaving the church.
Only in one way. I can't help but feel that bads will happen when the skies are clear. I always get scared and uncomfortable when I cant see any clouds. Even if I know it's not true. I'd I was to right a book it would be called "cloudless skies" because of that odd superstion. It doesn't help that I've had coincidentally horrible and traumatic events when skies are clear.
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