Mommas boy

For some reason, my brain gets upset when my boyfriend hangs out with other people. I know I shouldn’t feel this way, but sometimes I can’t help it. I understand that he has a life outside of our relationship, and that’s great. He reassures me all the time, in fact, he often tells me he would rather spend time with me than with his friends. He’s a perfect partner, and I love him more than anything. However, I don’t want this to become an issue in our relationship. I know why my mind thinks this way, even though I don’t believe it to be true. My brain keeps telling me that he would rather be somewhere else than with me. Those words repeat in my head every time he’s out with friends, and I don’t know why. I want to find a solution to this obsessive and jealous thought so that I don’t ruin his time with friends. I really need help with this issue.❤️

I've been dating my bf since September, and his family is extremely religious and judgmental. When we first started dating, and his mom was made aware of it, she had a little conversation with him telling him to "be careful of who you get into a relationship with, they could take you down to hell with them", because she believes that i'm going to go to hell because of the way I dress, act, speak, amd my piercings. Now I try to be as kind and polite as possible with everyone, especially her, so idk why she's started making assumptions about me. Since then I've gone with him on Sunday to church several times, to church events, and to events with his family. I've built relationships with the rest of his family and I believe they think i'm halfway decent, considering that I was asked to be addy's bridesmaid. Unfortunately, too much drama was involved with that wedding and so I left the bridal party. A couple days after I texted in the bridal party gc that I was tired of this situations drama and all the other stuff with it, my bf told me that his mom talked to him about being afraid that i'm going to ALIENATE HIM FROM HIS FAMILY. And why is she worried about this, you might ask? Because of the way that I texted to tell them I was leaving the bridal party, and because apparently addy and her groom to be are now "uncomfortable" with how I talk to them... Tl;dr: my bf's family makes me feel like a bad person and I don't know what to do :(

Me and my significant other have been dating for a while now we are both in the military and we both went to a remote location ever sense we have been here I’ve been so insecure we with each other 24/7 back home and it’s not the same here now I constantly nick pick at her about other guys. If I see her look at a guy too long or if I see her laugh with them anything involving someone else that is male I get super uncomfortable and almost even jealous that someone else has her attention she talked to me yesterday night and said she’s been having thought of being on her own and leaving me which honestly broke me we are still togather but I guess she wants her space so we are not spending much time together or talking much I guess pretty much a "break" I know she’s not the type to go around a mess with another person she truly wants to find herself again and see if she truly wants to be with me I guess and I have to admit i was in the wrong for sure I would be controlling in ways and was someone I didn’t wanna be and always on defense mode for any person talking to her that was a guy. And now it caused her to want a “break from me I talked to my mom because moms are always right ? And she told me I was definitely in the wrong no one wants to be with someone who is controlling and insecure etc my mom pretty much told me she was her own person before our relationship and it’s come to trust at the end of the day and that I can’t control the narrative I just need other opinions on what to do to help save us and my self