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OCD & holiday travel
How do you manage OCD while traveling or being away from home?
How do you manage OCD while traveling or being away from home?
It’s challenging but I won’t let OCD take travelling from me. I actually noticed that more I prepare, more anxious I am. So I do the absolute minimum.
@kamilg Always remember, you are stronger than your OCD!
@kamilg I can get caught in the loop of preparing thinking of every little possible thing and trying to address it prior to leaving. Pretty much anything i might forget will be available later. I need to live with that.
I tell myself that my ocd might flare so that I'm not surprised if or when it does, when in the moment I just dismiss the thoughts the best I can and use my tools and try to focus on having fun!
@Anonymous No matter how hard OCD tries to convince us otherwise…we CAN do hard things! Keep up the amazing work!
@Anonymous Maybe it will flare up maybe it will not , who knows and who cares
@Anonymous Exactly, maybe or maybe not, whatever.
Preparation helps.
@Wolfram For sure!
@Mackenzie - NOCD Team Member What kind of preparation?
@Anonymous Anything to reduce stressors is the short answer. You can prepare to deal with future situations instead of improvising all the tine. Less stress, less triggers. Do this but let go of expectations too and allow for unforseen to catch you off guard as well
I bring it along for the ride. However, like a crying baby sitting next to you on a long flight, you can choose to put on the headphones or pay attention. I choose to put the headphones on and take a nap. While the turbulence rocks me to sleep!
There’s so many unknowns with traveling and OCD wants to prep for it all. I have really pared down on what I “need” and don’t let my brain start making lists more than 10 days out.
Stay true to yourself and prepare for the worst case. Be confident and love yourself.
Having a strong support system willing to help me and also tell me when my OCD is getting worse when I'm not noticing helps me!
Bring your meds with you because psychiatrist cannot prescribe medicine out of state
I try and keep what routines I can… Stretches, pray Breakfast, read the paper, read scripture, coffee… these get my day started right and ready for fun…
Why does it flare up when traveling?
It’s really difficult. Really, really difficult. I have a known tendency to overpack before traveling. I always bring a lot more luggage than everyone else. My emotional baggage, I call it. I pack several extra outfits, as much film equipment as possible, as many electronics as possible, all of that. Because WHAT IF I need it? What if I don’t pack fourteen pairs of underwear but wish I did? What if I don’t pack my lavalier microphone but wish I did? And so on and so forth. My psychiatrist diagnosed me with hoarding disorder. As a person known to already have autism, ADHD, OCD, depressive symptoms, avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder, and several others, hoarding disorder has to be one of the hardest ones I deal with. I don’t just hoard— I have to keep all of my belongs in my bedroom. Accessible only to me and nobody else. When it comes to packing, yes, it’s like I hoard my own belongings along with me to other places. But I do love to travel very much. So I’m working on that.
@Infinite I have become better at trying to guess every single thing I need for any situation. (Partly because bags cost so much!) I did a lot of work on my flying fears and can be ok with 3 or 4 distraction items rather than 20 just in case items. And if I forget white sox, I can buy them or wear something else. It is difficult though. I make myself cut out things before the final zip up. Best wishes !
@gixmo Thank you!!
Chat GPT. It sounds dorky but if you explain the circumstance and that you have OCD, it can help in a pinch!
@lmikowski37@gmail.com i love chat gbt! It's kinda a compulsion but sometimes if i get really worked up and reassurance will help me avoid a panic attack i make it read me statistics lol.
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