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A key to managing OCD
How does response prevention differ from other techniques you’ve tried for managing OCD?
How does response prevention differ from other techniques you’ve tried for managing OCD?
Feeling so physically off balanced and mentally uncomfortable plus thr added stress from the anxiety from wondering what bad might happen or what energy where did I throw off because I resisted my particular compulsion. Smh
Response prevention brought lots of intense emotions at first, but now it has given me an incredible amount of confidence that I can get through any stressor life throws at me.
@Anonymous I love this! Confidence was one of my biggest takeaways from ERP therapy!
It's one of the hardest things I have ever done but it has changed my life.
@ElevenB Thank you for sharing! This is an awesome reminder that we can do hard things, no matter how hard OCD tries to convince us otherwise.
I feel more in control and competent when I resist reassurance seeking at work. I think my coworkers see that too though they don't know about this part of me.
And I'm far from perfect--sometimes, I will try to get reassurance anyway. Sometimes my coworkers refuse and that's how I figured out resisting helps more even if it had to be done for me.
I think in some ways it has triggered more intense obsessing. In other ways it has left me feeling empowered. But largely I feel uncertain, scared, unsafe when I resist them. I’m trying to find a balance because I know avoiding can be a compulsion and sometimes I get into a loop of avoiding as a compulsion rather than actually resisting a compulsion
@Megan Ruth Same
Less sticky thoughts
@dianao Yes! Exactly!
Being in the middle of OCD makes you feel so completely out of control but focusing on response prevention is incredibly empowering and helped me feel like I could actually be the conqueror. It helped me learn to experience whatever thought, feeling or urge and let it come and pass while moving on with my life. It also helped me to know what to look out for - ruminating, assurance seeking, avoiding instead of just being tossed around at the mercy of OCD.
Resisting the compulsions at first was extremely hard for me to do. But I did it and fought through fighting it and once I got past the feeling of wanting the to the compulsion physically I had to try to pry to the thought out of my mind and once I did that and distracted myself I felt so much better. I felt like it wasn't a burden over me because I avoided a cycle of compulsion(s).
That's actually incredibly helpful advice to me it let's me know it can be resisted and it's not just me I appreciate it
@Kamskinz Of course!! It can be extremely difficult sometimes but when you avoid it, it can be such a breath of fresh air to accomplish not doing it
I haven’t been able to resist. When I do, I feel like I’m going to have a panic attack if I don’t. I can’t say that I’ve tried everything because I give in really fast. I need reassurance and my compulsions give me the relief I need to know everything is ok. I know I need to push past the feeling and to use the 15 minute rule but the panic is almost overwhelming at times.
I think the worst part for me is the realness and the relentlessness of the thoughts and feelings. Each time I try to disengage they come on more relentlessly and powerful to the point that it’s convincing enough that “this is me” or “something bad is about to happen any second”. Sometimes I don’t even feel anxious, I just get the thoughts by themselves and then I’m completely thrown off and doubtful of myself.
I feel resisting my compulsions is what has toned down my OCD to very manageable levels. Resisting the compulsions certainly is the key to improvement and healing.
@Anonymous This is awesome! Keep up the amazing work!
I'm a overthinker,always worried about what could go wrong
@marypease1964 You’re not alone! Exposure Response Prevention therapy teaches us to confront our obsessions and sit with the discomfort we feel around them. Then, we learn to resist the urge to do compulsions.
It works.
@Balance123 Heck yes it does!
Response prevention made me fear my thoughts less
@dslite And made me realize I’m in control
@dslite Yes! We are in control!
Resisting it was hard asf at first but it’s soooo worth it. Living life is honestly much easier.
@peace&love Love this! ERP therapy is hard, but we CAN do hard things!
Short term suffering for long term peace of mind, rather than the usual short term relief for long term suffering. Good tradeoff in my opinion
@Wolfram Agreed!
Over time, resisting my compulsions has helped me trust my diagnosis. Although it’s very hard to do, especially with mental compulsions, it’s a relief in a way to be able to say to myself, “That’s totally my OCD wow.” It makes me feel like I have some power over it.
We where just told by Echo Darlington that we cannot be treated due to the fact I don't have a legal document saying she was born from a sperm donor and therefore no father is needed for legal representative to give permission to see a therapist. My daughter is 11 and was so excited to get started. Echo was condescending and will daughter now feels hopeless . Echo was a horrible nightmare. My 11 year old daughter should never have been treated this way. Nor should anyone else.
Ten years in prison.
I just started ERP and it makes my ears ring and I get a lump in my throat and my chest gets tight but i have to take deep breaths and talk to my OCD
Resisting compulsions is hard, but when I am successful I feel better in the long run. When I first resist I still feel anxiety and distress for a little while, but the more I do it I feel like I have more control in my life
Freezing, feeling so stuck I get paralyzed
I cannot function if I resist compulsion
A feeling of empowerment and control that is healthy.
There are some I can let go of and others I cant. Im dug in to some compulsions like a tic. I just dont want to go through panic, headaches or vomiting or a mental breakdiwn that makes me catatonic
Trying to resist compulsions for me makes me 10x more anxious which then leads to a need for even more compulsions.
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