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- June123
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Intrusive
Does confessing an intrusive thought just make it come back stronger?
Does confessing an intrusive thought just make it come back stronger?
Not at all, maybe maybe not, but the thing with intrusive thoughts is that there just fears there things we would never do, so even if you confess or not there will be no effect however if your confessions are compulsions than that's were you do exposures but if your scared of confession and you confessions will make you do compulsions than that's where we take a step back and look at what's going on. Sometimes OCD can be sneaky but idk if this helps or not š I know it's so challenging to deal with intrusive thoughts but imagine them like clouds floating away they come and go in waves they are nothing but temporary annoying thoughts. You are capable of ignoring them and your so brave :)
Feeling the need to "confess" intrusive thoughts is a common compulsion. Compulsions make OCD and intrusive thoughts worse.
Wanted to specify that I mean worse in the long run. Confessing compulsions can provide temporarily relief, but the OCD beast is never satisfied and will always demand more compulsions and more control over your mind and life.
Hey!! So if you feel like you have to confess then it definitely could be a compulsion. Compulsions give us temporary relief but also show us that the thought we had is something to be feared, when really itās just a thought. It can make the fear/intrusive thought come back feeling stronger since compulsions are a way to fight the thought. Compulsions are best avoided, but be kind to yourself as you learn what is a compulsion and what isnāt. As you resist your compulsions, the pathway in the brain that is labeling the thought as bad, will lose its hold. Youāve got this, and it gets better!! Iāve been there and spotting/resisting compulsions is tricky but youāll figure it out! Reach out if you have more questionsāļø
I donāt really wanna go into detail about what itās about cause I feel like itās super embarrassing, but thereās this one specific type of intrusive thought I get that I struggle extremely with ignoring/sitting in discomfort with. Does anyone have tips for managing something like this?
Does anyone have any tips on how to move on from intrusive thoughts when youāre constantly afraid that if you ignore them God will be mad at you?
I donāt know how to stop confessing. Itās driving me insane. I confess every little thing to my boyfriend. I confessed that I liked attention (this is so obviously human), that I liked it when people found me pretty (also very human??) I confessed about a million other things and I feel out of control. I felt so safe with him last night that it just started pouring out of me. I felt guilty and awful and I just needed release, I couldnāt breathe I felt like I was dying. Iām stuck in a confessing loop and I know Iām only making things worse. Has anyone experienced this and been able to overcome it? It feels absolutely horrible and impossible. I tried to ERP this and I genuinely feel like I am suffocating if I hold off. I feel so disappointed in myself, but I canāt seem to stop. I even had a dream where I confessed to him and woke up needed to confess that. Iām scared Iāll start sharing my worst intrusive thoughts Iāve had if I feel too safe around my bf. Help please :(
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