Do our minds imagine someone to look more attractive than they actually are in real life? I get aroused when I get images of this one guy and it feels like I really want to have sex with him but at the same time I try to push it away. I feel like there’s a part of me that is curious and wanting to explore, but I have a boyfriend and I love him and I only want him.
maybe your mind is subconsciously trying to find outlets away from your boyfriend because of commitment issues you may have. or maybe there’s something lacking from your current relationship? either or, it could also be thoughts that are truly not what you desire you just can’t help thinking them. i’ve been there.
This guy is skinny and works out and my boyfriend doesn’t and he’s on the heavier side. That’s the only thing I can think of, but I don’t want to be with the guy that I get aroused about
Also I wanted to mention, I had a past with sleeping with guys and had one night stands a little over a year ago. Ever since I’ve been aroused a lot and turned on all the the time.
So I get sexual images of this guy doing sexual things to me and the way he looks turns me on and my mind keeps on telling me that I want to have sex with him instead of my boyfriend. Whenever I try to think of my boyfriend in a sexual way, my mind has me think about the guy instead, and whenever I kiss or do anything sexual with my boyfriend, then I get aroused because I imagine it to be the guy instead of my boyfriend that I’m doing sexual things with. I’m just so confused and curious at the same time. I have a very high sex drive and I’m always aroused by thinking of this one guy. Could this mean that I don’t want my boyfriend and that I want him instead? If so, I don’t want that to be true. I don’t want to think of this guy sexually, but it just happens and it feels natural to me. Like I feel like I crave sex with this guy instead of my boyfriend.
Does anyone struggle with the OCD thought of lust while in a relationship? I get all these intense feelings and feelings that I want to have these thoughts with other people besides my boyfriend in my head yknow? And I’m afraid that these feelings are true and that i want to think these things but I don’t. I’ve been having a hard time this evening with this because the feelings and sensations I have on my body are really strong. And I feel like I sinned against him.
I frequently feel the need to test myself with sexual scenarios with a guy jn my class, im jn a relationship and i keep testing if I find him hot attractive or whatever and i have many crisis about it likw i pray to god to not make me attracted to X person, sometimes I avoid going to school i avoid looking at him I skip periods and truly yall idk what to do anymore. Can someone give me suggestions? I'm scared I don't wanna be attracted to anyone else besides my boyfriend i don't wanna cheat on him I don't wanna do anything I just wanna live a quiet happy life with him . I'm worried I know the truth and just don't wanna accept it jm super worried I need suggestions pls
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