Stressing about my relationship

Me and my boyfriend have only been together for a short period of time....and he's head over heels for me...at least he says so. All the time I'm so scared he's going to break up with me or any time something is uncomfortable I shut down and think I did something or he's thinking about me in a negative way and I don't know how to stop it. He doesn't do anything to seem like he wants to break up with me, but any time he does something a little different then normal I immediately think of the worst. If he's being really quiet I'll be thinking *is he going to break up with me* *does he not want to be with me* *is he just hanging out with me right now because he wants a girlfriend to pass the time* all of that stuff. And honestly I'm so scared..... because what if my thoughts are true?

your strong

Date posted: 22w

Wow this literally what am dealing with right now I know how you feel exactly how you feel but you see just how we have negative thoughts we can also have positive thoughts but obviously with ocd it seems impossible but have you ever thought about it this way if you really pay attention to yourself you can see your thoughts are only being negative because you got some good going on n negative thoughts are meant to ruin maybe there’s nothing wrong is jus our heads making stuff up because we feel something to good to be true we start doubting is real n that’s when our thoughts come in because once your bad everything bad wants to come to you because at tha point we’re weak so ofc everything gonna get to us because were already in a position that’s bad so only more bad things are gonna come I would suggest you to pray or jus really try not to get in your head because what I also know is your heart knows n feels everything truly so if you really know your bf then your ok bc your head doesn’t knows him like you do is why it wanna bring negative energy to you bc your somewhere good n negative always is gonna want to ruin good for example jus how there’s god there’s the devil as well I use to smoke n now that I stop n the devil knows everything jus how god does as well is gonna want you to get to the point where you fought hard to get out of bc that’s his job to ruin but love dont let it get to you ik you is strong n you will overcome this because remember not everything stays the same it will get better ❤️‍🩹 ik right now is so hard trust me we in the same place right now but what we needa do is have faith if your man didn’t give yu anything bad to think of him bad then is jus your head bc it knows your good so it’s gonna want to ruin that and it sucks really but you needa trust yourself n in your man as well if yu say he hasn’t done nun that has made yu seen that what your thinking right now is real then is jus our thoughts bc it knows we’re in a good place and everything bad jus comes from the devil n his job is this to ruin or try don’t let it get to you talk to him if anything n the little changes instead getting right to thinking negative talk to him that’s the best you can do n get your answer do not let your thoughts finish something you not even sure off bc now that’s when is gonna get really bad bc we only gon think negative remember you got this ❤️‍🩹

cam123

Date posted: 21w

Thank you so much! I know I need to trust God, because if it really isn't in his will then there is nothing I can do to stop it. I've been praying a lot and I think it's going to be okay but OCD does get the best of me sometimes. My best friend is praying for me too. It sucks that you're in the same boat! But we gotta stay strong and kick the devil out!! Tysm ❤️

your strong

Date posted: 21w

@cam123 Amen n we will will love remember god will never let us go through something we can’t handle or get out of so when we think we can’t make it jus remember you will cuz god got u always ❤️‍🩹

Mazy420

Date posted: 23w

Advice on this situation 😭

I’m at a loss about what to do. I’ve been with my partner for about a year. I’ve wanted to be with him for 3 years and now I finally have him, I got out of a really toxic 11 year relationship about 4 years ago so I’ve had plenty of time to heal, things where going so great at first in our relationship and I’m still very much happy with him, I love him more than anything, but the past 5 6 months I’ve been having a constant fear that he’s gonna cheat or watch 🌽behind my back any chance he gets , I know that’s a touchy subject for some, but me personally it just makes me feel that I’m not attractive enough,or feel like I’m not good enough, I’ve never found evidence of cheating, and I’ve found 🌽 in his history once but I told him how I felt and he told me he understood how I felt and wouldn’t do it again,and I know the constant asking everyday and needing for reassurance with it is putting a tear in our relationship, I just want to fix it. Does anyone have any advice on how to redirect my brain whenever I start overthinking about it when I’m not around him? It just puts so much stress on me when I’m not around him cause I’m just constantly in my head about it.

Relationship OCD

ljlutes

Date posted: 23w

Insight into my feelings

Can anyone validate my feelings/felt the same way. I overthink a lot about my relationship, but I especially worry my boyfriend will randomly change behaviors and become toxic. He’s never had toxic behaviors but I worry at some point in our relationship he could possibly change, and it consumes me sometimes.

Gmoki

Date posted: 22w

Relationship

I feel so bad I overthink abt everything my bf says and does. I think that if he doesn’t say x y z when I want reassurance then he must’ve stopped caring or is tired of me. I know it’s not the truth and he gives me NO reason to think this way. This is my first healthy relationship and I want to be in each others lives forever. I love him so much and I’m trying my hardest to manage these thoughts but I’m so anxious. It’s so draining I feel helpless and like I can’t go a day without checking his social medias. I want us to be the best versions of ourselves for eachother but idk where to start or how to manage this feeling.

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