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@Anonymous Ok , when I was a 14 or 15 I’m not sure, I would search things that now I know I really shouldn’t have .i didn’t know how bad it was at that time and had no supervision from parents and it happen multiple time.im so scared I will get in trouble

@Kinu Ok , when I was a 14 or 15 I’m not sure, I would search things that now I know I really shouldn’t have .i didn’t know how bad it was at that time and had no supervision from parents and it happen multiple time.im so scared I will get in trouble

@Zubaida It's ok...in teenage years we all go through something like, some search it, some go for it in real. It's doesn't mttee now. The realisation itself says you are a changed person now. I know some of people who watch various type of content without ny guilty. So it doesn't matter! It's not a big deal. Just relax about it. I know a person who was elder to me, a hostel mate cried infront of me about something she did in her first year of college but i remember everyone consoling her that it is not a big deal. It's ok to forgive yourself and let go

@Zubaida You are not in trouble take that thought out of your mind, somtimes we are scared of people we know getting to know about it, and that seems a big deal. But, trust me it was long back, even if you do it now then also it won't matter.

@Kinu Thanks that helps

@Kinu But it was really horrible and immoral and I asked chat gpt discretely and it said it’s about intention so if I a person did one time or a few then it ok so note I’m even more scared

@Zubaida Don't rely on chatgpt because does not understand the huma feelings, emotions and intentions the way human feels. So if you already feel so guilty about it then you have to forgive yourself otherwise you will be carrying the weight and it might definitely affect other aspects your life. Let go, and forgive your younger self, to become a better person we have keep forgiving ourselves each day, otherwise we will not be able to move ahead. Move on from that memory, it's no more worth to invest your energy thinking about it.

@Kinu Sorry if this is too much , u don’t need to reply

@Zubaida People even being so adult or even older do such immoral things, the don't even realize. You have already realized, so the first step to improve yourself is to forgive yourself. You know i feel guilty each day for many things, the botherance i have been giving to my parents, for not being a good person. But, each day when i wake up i don't let the yesterday's version of myself tell me otherwise. I'm human after all, with sone imperfections. So it's ok. Promise yourself that you will not think about it from now on.

@Zubaida It's ok. We all are going through some or the other thing, that's why we are here. I understand your feelings,please don't feel that way.

@Kinu I truly don’t know how much that help omg 🫶 thank u thank thank you

@Kinu I’m just so scared it was illegal and I had no idea , I know I’m not a bad person and the guilt has been killing me

@Zubaida 🫶sending all thr good vibes your way. Be kind to yourself!

@Zubaida It's ok! It's a gone thing now!🌸

@Kinu I really appreciate u 🌟

@Hi_123 I am not being able to find it...can you copy paste here?

@Hi_123 I think i found it

@worldwidegoober Hi , I already mention why I’m stressing, it under my post . Any advice please:)