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- 21w
Anybody have hit and run ocd?
Haven’t drove by myself for a month now. Ive gone through this before.. any advice or tips that can help
Haven’t drove by myself for a month now. Ive gone through this before.. any advice or tips that can help
I hope this helps! https://www.treatmyocd.com/blog/hit-and-run-ocd-overview-symptoms-treatment
I don’t have hit and run thoughts, but I had massive OCD fears about driving (convinced I was going to die), and no matter what your thoughts are, ERP will help you. Do you work with a therapist?
@MichelleV Yes I do on another application. I havent tried nocd yet.
What I love about this app is that people seem to be less afraid to speak up about obstacles they come face to face with on a daily basis. Reading this reminded me I’m not the only one with these struggles. I experience this theme of OCD way too often, especially when driving at night. If I’m driving away and look to the side for I kid you not just a millisecond, I go down this mental rabbit hole in asking myself questions like, “omg what if I just hit someone and didn’t notice? What if I did hit someone and then I wake up tomorrow and my whole life is over because of it? What if I accidentally hit someone and didn’t notice and I caused a tragedy that changed someone’s life and everyone around them, how could I live with that?” Then all those thoughts coming at 100mph make me always result in turning around and rescanning the area where I had the anxiety about to make sure there’s nobody. I found this to be worse because I felt like I was training my mind to always have concrete proof to believe my own judgment. Now, I’m not a therapist, and I’m not sure if this is helpful. But when thoughts like these come into my head, I try to remind myself that I’m a human being with clarity and a clear judgment. If something truly were to have happened the mind would’ve definitely noticed and I would’ve reacted.
@Anonymous2212 Yes what you said is very similar to what im going through. Its tough but ive been through it before really bad back in like 2019. I scheduled my first nocd appointment on Thursday. I hope it goes great.
@marks I understand. I have faith that we aren’t given anything we can’t handle so I believe you will get through this and seeking professional help is a good step in a journey when seeking progress! It’s gonna go great.
I used to have this. It's very debilitating! Mine ended up morphing into another subtype of OCD unfortunately (that's even worse), so I don't have any advice to give. I am here for you though!!
@Anony1314 Yes it is very hard. My moms been taking me to work. I only drive with someone in the car for now. Its just tough cause I was driving everywhere for like the past 5-6 years.
yes i do and it’s awful! I am currently working with a therapist and starting medication tomorrow… I hope it helps! Praying for you i would never wish this on anyone it’s horrible and i know how you feel
@cheetahgirl Yes it is the worst tbh. I been on medication since like 2019ish. And thank you so much. Praying for you also.
@marks has the medication helped you at all??
@cheetahgirl Yes it calmed my mind a lot
Hi marks. Thank you for reaching out! What worked well for you in the past when this happened? Have you considered ERP treatment? Hit and Run OCD is treatable! See treatmyocd or contact the NOCD Care Team for any specific questions you might have.
Sorry here is the link to NOCD's website: treatmyocd.com
@Katelin Jobin Erp worked well for me in the past. And I scheduled a call for today to talk to someone to find the right therapist for me. Is there a therapist that specializes in hit and run ocd?
@marks - Good work scheduling a call! OCD specialists are trained to treat OCD, regardless of the subtype/theme. Wishing you good things in your continued recovery @marks!
Make sure you frame this as celebrating being brave and courageous and refusing to believe the thoughts/worries OCD gives you. How you frame things as scary/empowering makes a big difference in taking actions forward. Celebrate choosing to step out into this risk and finding out you can do it!!
@Anonymous - Which one?
Do you work on this subtype with your current therapist?
@MichelleV Yes
@marks Ok! Is it an ERP therapist? My general advice is to keep working on the exposures. There is a lot of fear with driving, but speaking from personal experience, your world opens up so much more when you conquer the fear
@MichelleV No it isnt a erp therapist. I did erp therapy years ago when I was feeling like this. Going to give nocd therapy a try soon
@marks I’m glad!
Does anyone have hit and run ocd ? Or possibly causing an accident by crossing the middle line and a vechile going into a ditch ?
It’s like I drive a little ways on the main road and then something in my head says danger turn around and I do! I don’t k ow what’s dangerous though. I feel like I’ll never get past this and I’m so frustrated
I was driving when I passed by 2 kids playing with a ball in their front yard, their ball made it to the street, I slowed down and continued my route and looked back to to make sure they’re ok and when I got home I started getting intrusive thoughts that I ran over the kid 😢
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