Heyy so has anybody ever experience in rocd like ur scared that what if u liked somebody else or had a crush on somebody else even tho u never had no romantic or sexual feelings for anybody else only ur bf but u still question urself?
Classic Checking Ocd Dont WORRY You know deep down that you love your boyfriend And those are just ocd question Aaaghh.. let me reassure myself that i am not in love with someone or that nobody else is gonna atract me... All lies All ocd lies The need for reassurence is proof that you ate not what ocd thinks you are
@Mrcino 1408 Its just so annoying I hate it I try not to worry sometimes I dont worry but then I do
@Anonymous When you worry, just remember that that feeling isn t Fact, but Worrying that could be fact Big difference, Worries are just Worries threat them like that
Say Okay i Worry Just let it stays in your mind but dont do Compulsions like Check in your mind or start looking someone. Just let it comes to you and then you remember Ocd just Worries no problem i am not that. And dont look at it like this:ocd just tell that i am No!. Ocd tells you: I worry that you are
@Mrcino 1408 I just let the worry be and not check on anything bc the worry will go away?
@Mrcino 1408 And whatever u think in my head its not real ?
@Anonymous Yes, no matter the feeling, threat the thought like False alarm ocd thought everytime
@Anonymous You question yourself not because of you But because ocd told you to Although it seems like its you But actually its not! When you reassure yourself everytime, what happens You realise that you should not even engage in this THOUGHT in the first place Always remember that I know its difficult But thats the truth
@Mrcino 1408 So ocd is just a false alarm and feeling
@Anonymous ExactlyđȘ
@Mrcino 1408 I do question if its ocd or not I was diagnosed with it but I still wonder if I actually have ocd or not or what if im lying to everyone
@Mrcino 1408 Have u had an experience like me before?
@Anonymous Can i tell you something that you might not yet understand fully, but you will understand if you are going to defeat your ocd These question is just Reassurence You have to understand reassurence its only food for ocd but hey i understand you why you need it and its good but only if it happens once or twice depends on situation, but if you ask for reassurence for the SAME THING OVER AND OVER AGAIN then its bullshit Now i will give you that ressaurence no problem and say this I am going to say, no, nobody has that sorry,only you.... So let me guess what just happened In your head Omg Nobody has this, and he said that Ocd sufferrers has this, that must mean that i am HORRIBLE AND Everything Is True, i do FEEL SOMETHING FOR..... See All lies Same Pattern all the time But just for you to be sure That i had this and i understand this Although it seems Crazy
@Mrcino 1408 OMG its like u read my mind after u said that đ
Those what ifs of your and how frequently you asked me Its a Proof Ocd is problem of worry and doubt and fear Every "What if" Is fear and doubt I smiled on this last reply of yours because i know your worry is NOTHING to be worried about What if i am lying to What if i am... This or that Think about it It s all fear And doubt Ocd right and left arm
@Mrcino 1408 Thank you so much there's times where I dont worry and there's times where I worry a lot its so annoying
@Anonymous And Never forget what you just said No matter the feeling Always keep this in mind Your logic should now see this: wait a minute something is not right with this ocd it cannot be either All black or either all White This is Another proof that you should not believe in Ocd Believe your INNER SELF and build that
@Mrcino 1408 Thank you so so much and ill try to rember that think you:)
I just saw my boyfriend, and even though everything was okay on the outside, inside my mind it was a storm. I kept having thoughts like: âYou donât like him.â âYouâre not feeling anything.â âYouâre pretending.â âYou donât care.â And then, he said something sweet â something that shouldâve made me feel happy: âWe should marry.â And instead of warmth, I felt anxiety. A pit in my stomach. A voice in my head saying: âYou donât want that.â âYouâll never stay with him.â âIf you really loved him, youâd feel joy.â And I hate it. I hate that Iâm in this state. I donât feel connected. I donât feel clarity. I donât even know what I feel anymore. I just feel⊠numb. And the worst part? It feels like I donât even care. But I know I do. Somewhere, beneath all the noise and panic and obsessive thoughts, I care. I want to feel close to him. I want to stop second-guessing every word, every touch, every thought. This is ROCD. It makes me question everything. It makes me feel like Iâm lying â even when Iâm not. It steals the moments that should feel warm and turns them into confusion. If anyone else feels this awful mix of numbness, fear, and guilt â please tell me Iâm not alone.
So this past week Iâve needed to do somethingâs with group for my school. I have been hanging around more people who are not my boyfriend and now Iâm scared Iâm losing feelings for him and I am attracted to someone else. Is this normal I have researched and researched and it says it is but what if these thoughts are true? What if there is someone better for me than my boyfriend? Help me please has anyone else gone through this?
I need advice. Iâve had OCD in different forms since I was eight. Iâve been with my boyfriend for two years now. He has always been subtly anxious and jealous. He would say things like, âI find everyone but you uglyâ or âI could never find anyone else attractive.â That stressed me out morally, especially since itâs our first relationship and I, of course, want to be good enough for him. It started around the three-month mark of our relationship. Now to the problem: When I see someone who is attractive or cute, it already begins. I start thinkingâor rather, I donât just think, I feel. I genuinely and naturally feel these emotions, like I find that person attractive, like I like them, like I want them. I even feel infatuated, like I want to be with them, spend time with them, be their partner, even sexual scenarios or feelings like I love them. These emotions feel so natural and real that I canât tell the difference. With one person, Iâve had these feelings for over a year. But I only know most of these people by sight. It could be that Iâve fallen in love with the idea of them. Thatâs a big issue for me. It completely goes against my moral values. I donât want this. For me, it would be terrible to have a crush on someone else, to like someone else, or to fall in love with another person. Or worse, to love someone else. Because I do love my partner, and I want a future with him. And I know the relationship wouldnât survive if my fears came true. Even if he always tells me, âNo, I wouldnât break up with you,â I couldnât live with it myself. And the thing is, itâs not even such an unrealistic fear. Itâs not like Iâm afraid I want to kill someone or that I have feelings like that. No, this topic Iâm dealing with involves real people. There are many people who suddenly fall for someone else, who develop a crush or even fall in love with another person. And I canât reconcile that with myself. A year ago, I saw someone, and it hit me like a shock (I think in a negative way). Yes, he is attractive or cute. But in that moment, I felt so much fear, panic, and adrenaline because I felt and thought that I liked him more than my partner. When that happens, I start testing my feelings again. And of course, I feel exactly what Iâm afraid of. I then constantly feel this pressure or burden, along with guilt. When I think about a scenario, or imagine the person, those feelings come immediatelyâfollowed by fear, panic, and guilt. Because of that, I avoid certain places, things, or even numbers because Iâm afraid of being triggered. By now, Iâm convinced these are my true feelings, because I just canât imagine that OCD could produce such emotions, and for such a long timeâsometimes over a year. I simply donât want this. I just feel awful, like a monster. What should I do?
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