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Not ocd enough
I feel like I'm not ocd enough to deserve treatment . I don't feel as bad as other people do.
I feel like I'm not ocd enough to deserve treatment . I don't feel as bad as other people do.
I get that feeling, but it’s important to remember that OCD doesn’t follow a one-size-fits-all rule, and your experience is just as valid. The intensity of OCD isn’t a measure of who deserves help. Every struggle matters, and seeking treatment means valuing your well-being, regardless of how you compare yourself to others.
i know what you mean, i didn’t really let myself seek treatment for my OCD until my fear paralyzed me from going to work. i kept thinking it’s all in my head (my compulsions are pretty much all mental) and so many people have it worse, i probably don’t even have it at all. but if i sprained my wrist, i wouldn’t think “oh i don’t deserve to get any sort of treatment, because some people break their wrists.” doctors exist so people’s pain can be eased, regardless of how much pain it is. it’s not about deserving, it’s about healing, which everyone is entitled to. i hope this is even a little bit helpful ❤️
Just because your OCD isn't necessarily "bad" right now doesn't mean that it won't be in the future. It's good to have the tools to be able to deal with it when it does get really bad. Everyone deserves treatment so they don't have to suffer as much. There's times where I feel pretty good and the OCD is still there, but manageable. There's other times though where I feel the most awful I've ever felt because of OCD, so I would do the treatment or learn coping skills to help. It can get bad out of no where.
I struggle with this too! But at the end of the day, treatment is for yourself. It isn't to prove to anyone how sick you are or to get some kind of official designation. It's just about what you can do to make your life better. And if treatment will make your life better, then you deserve it and should do it.
We ebb and flow. Work with a therapist and do what’s right for you
Thank you guys this really helps
I know that sounds a bit harsh, but people with OCD think very differently then everyone else and we do strange things. I used to think OCD was just that we overthink to much and have compulsions to fix it, but its kinda alot more than that i realise. Like peoples lives are legit debilitated from this thing. Thats serious and i dont think others realise that. Mabye im concerned too much idk.
Ok, so first of all, I’m undiagnosed. However, I’ve been pretty certain for a while now that what I’ve been struggling with is OCD. My problem though is that it’s not easy to get diagnosed, and in some cases, it would require me to pay money. It frustrates me that I have to pay to deal with my mental health. Is it worth it for me to get diagnosed? I know I don’t need a diagnosis to start healing and working on these things, but I also don’t want to be “self diagnosing” the problem, because that makes me feel like a liar and an imposter. My other problem is that I fear my family doctor won’t properly diagnose me. I came to him about mental health related issues once before, and he read off a very generic list of mental health symptoms. when he got to what sounded like the ‘OCD’ section, we asked one or two very generic questions that had nothing to do with my themes, and since I couldn’t relate, I just answered no to them. He then told me I was fine, that I was just a “type A personality”, and that I was just being too hard on myself. I fear that my doctor might not be very knowledgeable or up to date on current information regarding OCD, and this might make it increasingly difficult for me to get diagnosed. Another problem is my symptoms seem to come and go. I often have an obsessive cycle that can last months at a time, and then it just goes away. Sometimes I won’t experience any symptoms for years. This makes me feel like I don’t actually have OCD or that it’s not ‘bad’ enough to be diagnosable.
Does anyone else’s OCD convince them that bad thoughts are not actually that bad…. Like I know they are so why do I feel like they arent😭😭
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