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- 32w
Not ocd enough
I feel like I'm not ocd enough to deserve treatment . I don't feel as bad as other people do.
I feel like I'm not ocd enough to deserve treatment . I don't feel as bad as other people do.
I get that feeling, but it’s important to remember that OCD doesn’t follow a one-size-fits-all rule, and your experience is just as valid. The intensity of OCD isn’t a measure of who deserves help. Every struggle matters, and seeking treatment means valuing your well-being, regardless of how you compare yourself to others.
i know what you mean, i didn’t really let myself seek treatment for my OCD until my fear paralyzed me from going to work. i kept thinking it’s all in my head (my compulsions are pretty much all mental) and so many people have it worse, i probably don’t even have it at all. but if i sprained my wrist, i wouldn’t think “oh i don’t deserve to get any sort of treatment, because some people break their wrists.” doctors exist so people’s pain can be eased, regardless of how much pain it is. it’s not about deserving, it’s about healing, which everyone is entitled to. i hope this is even a little bit helpful ❤️
Just because your OCD isn't necessarily "bad" right now doesn't mean that it won't be in the future. It's good to have the tools to be able to deal with it when it does get really bad. Everyone deserves treatment so they don't have to suffer as much. There's times where I feel pretty good and the OCD is still there, but manageable. There's other times though where I feel the most awful I've ever felt because of OCD, so I would do the treatment or learn coping skills to help. It can get bad out of no where.
I struggle with this too! But at the end of the day, treatment is for yourself. It isn't to prove to anyone how sick you are or to get some kind of official designation. It's just about what you can do to make your life better. And if treatment will make your life better, then you deserve it and should do it.
We ebb and flow. Work with a therapist and do what’s right for you
Thank you guys this really helps
Does anyone else’s OCD convince them that bad thoughts are not actually that bad…. Like I know they are so why do I feel like they arent😭😭
I'll start by saying, I have not been clinically diagnosed, as I do not have the funds to see therapists or psychiatrists in my current situation. Once I'm in a better spot, I very much intend to. That to say; after months and months of having issues with anxiety, specifically health related, my partner was the one that mentioned OCD. I did have some somewhat OCD related behaviors in my youth, though those likely could be explained by potentially undiagnosed ASD (as my mother is on the spectrum as well as a sibling, both diagnosed.) But I never considered OCD taking form in a health sense. I posted earlier about how I've had 4 days of pretty minimal anxiety and intrusive thoughts, and it has led me to doubt the OCD label I've been working at treating? I don't want to be the person that identifies themselves with a disorder they don't have, which is why I hesitate to self diagnose with OCD or ASD or anything else. At the same time, I've read that a lot of even clinically diagnosed people with OCD doubt their diagnosis. It makes me wonder if I will always have this doubt, and if that means it is worth it or not to get tested? I know that if I do, they can actually do ERP (whereas I've been self taught and self guided so far) so that would be worth it...
I think I have mild OCD. Maybe that's why I can't relate to many of the difficulties experienced by other posters. My OCD is more on the compulsion side performing certain rituals at key transitions or points during the day. I honestly cannot figure out what the underlying obsession is other than some kind of weird mental hoarding to acknowledge and cherish a moment but also to protect my family and even my pets. I get little or no anxiety (I used to when I was younger). Even mild OCD absolutely sucks and is debilitating to an extent.
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