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ROCD Christian
any struggle with ROCD ? Any Christian’s ? Need some support
any struggle with ROCD ? Any Christian’s ? Need some support
I do.
@Cade Lott. Do you ever struggle with physical appearances ? Like I love my boyfriend but I wish he was more physically attractive. I plan to marry him and I feel like I’m settling if I don’t find someone that’s more attractive physically. God has given me everything I could want in a man in him and I just fell in love with who he is. But I let these things bug me
Hey! I don't know if I have ROCD but I do suffer with other themes and I'm Christian, want to talk?
@Viny Definitely
@EmmaGrace27 - so feel free to tell me what's bothering you :)
@Viny Just feel bad that there are things about my boyfriend that bug me. I love him he’s the perfect man for me like Christian, man of God absolute saint. Can make me laugh like no other, and he and I both feel led to one another don’t feel led away. I don’t wanna value looks over who he is I fell for who he is and when we met had no physically attraction. I do now but it’s not a LOT, I over analyze his stomach and what it looks like. I feel bad bc i feel like it means I can’t be with him. I wanna be with him I’m scared in settling for less than what I want which is an attractive guy, but also I wanna be okay with how he looks. It’s wrong to go look for a better looking guy when Gid has given me whah I have! Not judge by looks but by th heart I feel bad when I don’t have that attraction and I compare
@EmmaGrace27 I’m in the same situation as yourself. When I first met my bf he was not my “type” but over time I’ve grown closer to him however I do sometimes get these intrusive thoughts he is not good looking enough as bad as that sounds and when others that are close to me say the same it hurts even more. God has blessed me with him and he literally is everything I could ask for just the looks part keeps throwing me off. When I get these thoughts I tend to go and distract myself and just let myself know it’s just a thought what I feel for him is something more. But then I do feel like a horrible person for thinking like that because he is an amazing guy. There’s been many times I have thought about breaking up but I know that will not solve anything other than give me temporary relief.
@EmmaGrace27 - I understand, OCD is a tricky trickster (pun intended) It corrolates things that don't have real value in real life, and goes against who you are as a person and what you value. That being said, sounds to me it is trying to convince you that a characteristic of your boyfriend is a deal breaker. And you should absolutely like 100% everything about your partner. but relationships in reality are not like this. It's okay to dislike somethings about your partner, a relationship does come with the challenge of accepting and managing shortcomings too.
@Anonymous Also OCD will try to convince you that people should fit a mold of "your type" and this isn't true. People never will fit perfectly into anyone's archetypes. And that's okay
@Viny Thank you I appreciate it a lot
@EmmaGrace27 - if you ever need to talk, by all means I'm here to do so.
@Viny I appreciate it so much! I really do. I think it’s ok to accept the things maybe I don’t like as much, as say yea my attraction CAN grow. I’m definitely physically attracted but I nit pick at what I don’t like and I truly just wanna accept it and learn to love it. God sees him as he sees me which isn’t by looks but by the heart
@Viny I think what’s really hard is I think I’d be happier with someone else only based on looks and idk how to like get past it
@EmmaGrace27 I have a connection with Josh that I’ve never had with anyone else
I do too
Hi everyone. I'm wondering if anyone has any tips for dealing with religious OCD. I'm a Christian and I struggle with Harm OCD but then somehow, my religious beliefs got mixed into this where I am suddenly asking all these questions on whether God/Jesus is even good. And as a result, I feel so distant from my faith which makes dealing with my harm OCD so much harder 😢 Any advice would be appreciated.
I’ve been really struggling with Relationship OCD since I got married, and 3 years later, I’m afraid I’ve lost the love of my life. Between the Relationship OCD, the Religious OCD, and the Sexuality OCD, she couldn’t handle it anymore. Now that she left, the fog of doubt has faded, and I’m realizing how much I truly loved her all along. I just don’t understand how our minds can play such sabotaging tricks on us. And why? I don’t know what to do. I hope and pray we eventually get back together, but I know I need help. I want to do whatever I can to return to a place where she can feel loved by me, the way she did before ROCD took over. Is anyone here going through something similar? Has anyone overcome ROCD? Were you able to repair your relationship? I’d really appreciate any insight or advice. Thank you.
Please help anyone else here with Religious ocd and is a Christian? My brain is going hay-wire and want to know I'm not alone... what do your thoughts say and how do you overcome compulsions? Im going through a rough moment and feel sick with anxiety and stiff. I want to obey God but my thoughts won't stop. I surrender to the Lord and then I have peace with the compulsions and they go away but the thoughts are the scary part please - is this spiritual or is it mental? Or is it both? Would love to hear a Christians opinion on this... because my thoughts latch on and won't dissappear but I know that the Bible commands us to take control of our thoughts and to renew our minds...yet God has grace for this and mercy for our every need... I know God is in control (completely) and my mind creates a lot of the issues for me without any spiritual stuff (it's a very powerful thing) but it's still scary. Lord help me, I surrender myself to you Jesus, counsel my soul and help me.
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