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I would mention the difference between the way he acts with you vs. His friends. Obv it's inevitable that we act a bit differently with our friends, but to an extent where you feel uncomfortable. It should definitely be brought up and called out
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2 of the people outright insulted me while he wasn't around. I think they were talking shit about him too, but I'm not really sure, they might have been talking about someone else with a similar name, so I didn't want to call them out. I feel really bad because they kind of had a right to insult me. I was being really quiet because I have social anxiety, and aspergers syndrome. Me and social don't mix AT ALL. I'm like an alien. I have major resting bitch face too to add to the equation, so people automatically tend to assume that I'm an asshole.
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@hateocd123 Did he defend you?
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@NocturnalGyal They left before he came back. I don't know if he's said anything to them about it. When I told him he got really upset, but he's very non confrontational, so I doubt it.
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@hateocd123 Ugh that's so annoying. I can understand your frustration though. It definitely sounds like a civil talk needs to be had. It's no good use if you just keep your mouth shut about this because over time it'll turn into resentment
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@NocturnalGyal You're right, but I always feel really guilty after I confront him about things.
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I feel like I literally gaslight myself. My ocd gaslights me.
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I feel like this is not entirely in your head. As you said yourself, there are some actual problems missed in. As long as those real problems in the real world are not fixed, your can't blame your brain alone for the way you feel. Talk to your boyfriend. Don't fight or shout at him. Just casually, when you're both feeling more or less fine, tell him what you wrote here. How you think everything always means more to you. How uncomfortable you are around his friends and how the fact that he doesn't seem to mind makes you feel. I'm all honesty, you did not mention anything about any obsessions or compulsions in your post. You only mentioned "normal" relationship doubts that are caused by real behaviours, not my your head.
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