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- 20w
Does it ever get easier?
Please tell me it gets easier…it’s hard to hold on when it feels like it’s not going to ever.
Please tell me it gets easier…it’s hard to hold on when it feels like it’s not going to ever.
Maybe it does and Maybe it doesn't, one of the things you have to remember is chasing that certainty that it will get easier is only going to make it worse. Ocd no matter what the theme is, will be about doubt and the need for total control, both of which are unattainable. We have to learn through hard work and persistence that you don't need certainty or 100% control to live in recovery 😉. I know this might seem unhelpful and maybe even unkind but trust me when I say it's far better than telling you what you think you want to hear. Always remember you are not alone in this and never will be.
OCD is a struggle for many of us. I have had so many peaks and valleys on my journey. Being on meds/ off meds, in therapy/ not in therapy, good job/ bad job, health issues, relationship issues. All of it affects my anxiety and in turn OCD. I’m in a valley right now but I remember how I’ve come out of them before. I will again and so will you. Hang in there. If you can do therapy, I would try it again. I’ve had 4 OCD therapists and only one really got through to my OCD. The others only kind of scratched the surface. Maybe you would have more success with someone else
If it is hard, you probably are doing your erp right even if it seems hopeless.
If you do the work, yes it gets a lot easier. You have to be willing to invest energy and be uncomfortable, but it’s so possible. Are you in ERP therapy?
@Anonymustard No but I have been in the past
@#happiness Did you see progress?
@Anonymustard No but I’m trying to sit w uncertainty and not seek reassurance. I just feel like ocd has hijacked my entire life.
@#happiness I encourage you to go back to therapy and try again! I think it’s the best way to do ERP and the fastest way to get better. Give it a really good shot ❤️
I can remember the day I started having intrusive thoughts. I was so confused and scared. It’s been almost 3 months- does it get easier to manage? Currently taking medication and going to therapy, but this is all still very new, and very scary. Please tell me there’s relief in recovery..? I tend to isolate myself from my family, often. I’m tired, so so tired. :( Most days, I just stay on the couch or in bed. I don’t quite get as anxious, but like a “heart stopping” gut feeling when a thought pops up. I miss the me I was before the diagnosis. HOCD is scary and harder when it attacks the loved ones, spouse, in your home. :( My heart hurts.
Last week was a lot easier for me. I felt like thoughts didn’t control me and my actions as much as they did earlier. Today was really hard for me and I feel like I’m starting to lose hope again:( I can’t take the thoughts and the feelings that come with them anymore. I feel like I have failed and I’m never going to be happy again.
So I just started Zoloft 25mg almost a month ago and I’m still experiencing extreme panic and intrusive thoughts. It’s not fun, I genuinely just always think there’s no way I’ll “make it through life” living like this. And I’ve felt like this for four years straight I feel like recently it’s gotten a lot worse. Even when I feel like my brain is alittle quieter I was so obsessed w ocd that I just go right back to thinking abt it and scaring myself. Also I did ERP hated it I just started ICBT and I kinda like it. But when anyone else gets thought spirals and freaks out and has extreme panic do they have thoughts like they need to be admitted to a mental hospital and smth is seriously wrong with them? Bc the panic that comes with the ocd makes it feel soooo real and debilitating
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