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Is this forever?
I just had a thought there. Will I have to do ERP forever ?
I just had a thought there. Will I have to do ERP forever ?
Yes, ERP will be part of our lives. But I agree with the comment above. I also like to see it this way. We are all professional athletes and we need to exercise. Our exercise is ERP. If we stop exercising, then we won’t be as strong as we need to be. But the ERP exercises will get easier as time goes. In the beginning, they are not fun I understand. But the more we sit with the uncertainty and discomfort, the stronger we become.
Thanks!
Don't forget in my opinion accepting uncertainty is the most important thing,ERP + UA
Yes because there’s no cure for OCD. But once you get to know how OCD works and what to do/what not to do, it becomes second nature. You living your life without listening to OCD is self ERP.
That's a really good explanation thankyou. I guess I'm in the learning phase at the moment.
I love this question and the answer is very simple if done correctly it becomes a lifestyle automatically
That's interesting! Thanks 👍
Well, there’s planned ERPs (intentionally confronting fears in a controlled environment) that you would be doing in therapy, and there’s spontaneous ERPs (being confronted by a fear spontaneously in real life, and choosing to not respond with compulsions). Planned ERPs are extremely important during active OCD treatment, or during a time in your life that would put you in high-risk for an OCD lapse/relapse. When in recovery (DOCS scores below 24, give or take), spontanous ERPs are typically the focus, with occasional planned ERPs on a per need basis. This is whats worked best for me! This is what I consider living an ERP lifestyle. Always looking for an opportunity to exercise your response prevention skills. It won’t always be necessary to practice planned ERPs daily. You absolutely can, but its not “required” to stay well. Hope this makes sense!
Yeah that does make sense, thanks for that! 👍
I have met people who have come to place where they actually don't meet criteria for diagnosis of OCD. After doing erp . It takes time and when the question comes how long will it take to recover the answer is that it takes however long it takes for the individual to recover. At times you may think I have been in this for way too long will I ever get over it And all it means sometimes is that your expectation was to high for the time being and slowly you out will achieve your goal . Try not comparing yourself to other everyines recovery is different but eventually you will overcome it. The criteria of the diagnosis of OCD is that the disorder effects more than an hour a day you should seek help. Dr philipson who coined the term Pure O Has said that he managed to get people intrusive thoughts not more than 4 obsessions a day. It's a very TREATABLE condition and I'm living proof of it .
I used to get caught in a loop with existential thoughts very frequently. Every question made my stomach drop: (TW: existential questions) … … ... "Why does anything exist at all? What will death be like? Is anything even real? Is there any meaning to this? Is the universe infinitely big, and if not, what's beyond it? Are there multiverses? Has the universe been around forever? Will the universe end for good, or will it keep going forever? What is forever like? What even IS reality?" It would get so overwhelming that I remember lying on the floor in a fetal position for hours because I felt like there was no escape. I spent most of my days reading articles and watching videos about theoretical astrophysics and philosophy in a desperate attempt to "figure it all out." Of course that only made me more anxious, raised more questions, and kept me trapped in the cycle. Things started to improve once I learned to turn TOWARD reality, rather than away from it, and ERP really helped me do that. I learned that these questions weren't the problem. I learned that I can actually handle the anxiety that arises when exposed to these ideas and concepts. I don't have to figure anything out to make the anxiety go away; it arises and passes away on its own. Ironically, bringing myself into the present moment and becoming more aware of reality helped me escape the cycle of existential dread. Because of that, this topic no longer takes over my life. If I'm triggered by something I see, hear, or think, I may still feel a little twang of anxiety, but then it just goes away. "Maybe, maybe not" has been the single most useful phrase of my life. Do you ever get trapped in a cycle of existential questions? Are you worried that the ERP approach would be too scary to handle? If so, I'm happy to give my advice.
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What would I do for ERP if my OCD says because I didn’t do something correctly or remember something I will have panic attacks that don’t end?
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