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But what if ocd is targeting it because it wants to reveal hidden attraction

What does it mean if i care?

@ONE INDIAN GIRL I’m so sorry ml for not relying immediately, I’ve been feeling quite bad but I’m glad someone responded to you with something helpful🫂

@rainbows Hey atleast you helped i very grateful you...may god bless you🤍🙏

@ONE INDIAN GIRL May God bless you with more🫶🏽

It kind of sacred me

What do you mean by specific feelings? Like ?

How do i know if i have those specific feeling ? Could you help? If you dont mind🙏😷

@ONE INDIAN GIRL That’s your mind asking for reassurance haha😭🫂

@rainbows Idk whats me 😰

@ONE INDIAN GIRL You’re the person experiencing all these complicated things and you’re trying your best🫂

@ONE INDIAN GIRL It sounds like you want to determine whether or not you have a real attraction to someone or just an OCD obsession. In order to do that, you need to look beyond the OCD. The OCD will give us false feelings, false signals, false attraction, and false obsessions. So if you want to decide if something is real or not, you have to look at your real feelings--instead of all that false stuff. It can be very hard to distinguish our real feelings from the OCD. But deep down we all know the OCD stuff is a lie.

@Tea and Honey If your soul is really set against liking this person, it's probably going to all just be OCD

@Tea and Honey I just know i dont want that person as romantic intrest .. i want boys. I dont know why i am thinking of her it just doesnt feel right.. She's not even a good friend but still shes my bestie.. cause she's the one only one person who matches my vibe ..😔

@Tea and Honey But i have this weird awkwardness around her whenever i am alone with her.. i dont know what is it.. I just dont want to be attracted to her.. And also now i having this thought"she isnt gay how would you date her"? Nooo why did i had this thought it means i have hidden feelings!?!?!

@ONE INDIAN GIRL This sounds like OCD to me. I wouldn't worry about it. OCD gives false attractions all the time. Just treat it like you would treat an "intrusive" thought. When we have intrusive thoughts, we have to just let them flow freely through our brains without trying to fight them or fix them. And then you do ZERO compulsions or actions related to that thought. You do actually absolutely nothing regarding the thought. So when you experience false attractions, just let them be there in your brain. Let the thoughts be freely there without trying to fight them. And then do absolutely nothing about it. Don't worry about it. Go on with your life and continue to pursue boys, and just put this all in the category of OCD.

@Tea and Honey I look forward to your advice thanks Can i ask you something if you don't mind

@ONE INDIAN GIRL Sure