Advice please :(

@helpmeimsoscared Nah as a guy this ex of your seems toxic and a user. Don’t waste your time on him. He’s not worth it. Heck you even said he was mean to you. You deserve someone who will treat you well and make you happy. Just try your best to keep busy and move on. Your message was very polite to his sister… but at this point He’s talking trash and won’t change. The other girl is jealous of you and that’s why she’s spreading the rumor. Take this moment to yourself heal and don’t react. If someone ask you about it just say “he broke up with me over email, I wanted a conversation to see what work and didn’t work. I was unaware he blocked me.”

@J1000 She said this back Hi Jasmine, I completely understand how you’re feeling. You know that Tija and I are very close and talk openly about everything. I actually spoke to him about this, and he swore he hasn’t said anything to anyone about you being crazy or anything that happened between the two of you. Honestly, I don’t believe for a second that he would go around talking like that. You know how people can be — especially some girls — they like to stir up drama or make things uncomfortable for others. From what I heard, there was a situation where you went up to Matios and said, “Look at you, talking with your big mouth.” Maria was there and apparently asked Matios if that comment was aimed at her, and Matios said no, it was all meant for him because he addressed that you had broken up. So I think it’s just a case of people taking things personally or twisting things they overhear — and sometimes even putting words in Tija’s mouth when he never actually said anything. Please try your best to ignore it. It sounds like things are just being passed around to upset you, and you don’t deserve that. I really hope things settle for you soon. 🩷 I said this back Thank you so much for replying, I really appreciate it. I just want to clarify something so my side is understood. When I approached him and Maria, we were still together at the time. I was really emotional because of everything that had been happening between us. Maria was the only girl I had ever expressed discomfort about, so seeing him talk to her for most of his shift was hurtful, especially since he hadn’t message me or apologise for the night before. The night before, we had an argument where he said things like, ‘Look at you, you’re so insecure you’re begging me to see your worth’. Two weeks before that, I had already been feeling neglected and completely left in the dark with no communication for over a week, blocked. I understand how people can twist words, but it was very clearly directed at Matios, not Maria and she knows that. I appreciate you for replying. All the best and thank you for talking to him about it. Hope him and I can continue to move on respectfully as I want nothing but the best for us both 🤍🤍🤍 I wanted to say that he had literally ghosted me for the last two weeks, and literally threw my stuff on the front of my porch with no fence but I just kept it nice. Our entire relationship was legit botched he had no emotional maturity

@J1000 And I never said it like that, her face went bright red when I went up to them and she said oh we are talking about the gym and I said “ yes because he’s has a big mouth” rude I know but ugh