Please Please Someone help me!!!.... I had a friendship with a girl for 3 years back and we aren't talking for 1 years now because we it was a long-distance relationship and we weren't able to see each other. We fell in love. But now I've realised that it wasn't love but OCD that made me feel that I'm in love with her... We loved each other so deeply that it's hard to explain... It was a true and a pure relationship.... But now I couldn't continue to accept the fact that it was love because it wasn't. It was all just a FANTASY... Now my reality and this fantasy are striking each other. I can't tolerate this paint. I'm stuck between reality and fantasy. I'm in so much pressure and I can't get breath. I'm getting stabbed. Someone help me out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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@Believe Well from my point of view it was not OCD because when you love someone, you dream about this person , you want to be with her , it's real feelings , because OCD mostly gives you negative. So do not worry It was a real love .

@Ruslan Thank You So Much. It matters!

Thank you so so much. I was dying since 12 hours... I'm glad that you replied my post. Thanks once again...

I'm not in that hell because of you...

Thanks ?. I'm meditating and making myself better!

@Believe You can talk to me anytime and I'll try my best to help you!

I know because suddenly it faded away. Also, doing ERP sessions confirmed that my love for her was not more than a obsession of OCD. I as well agree that love is a deep deep affection and I don't feel that affection for her in reality ( but in my memories of OCD compulsion). It's strange!

@Believe I'm not trying to be rude, but I think you're thinking too much into this. Feelings are not concrete, they come and go. I think what you felt was infatuation. Love is a choice. Infatuation always dies (sometimes reignited at different points in a relationshirelationship). Ask anyone in a long term relationship. So are you saying you're not interested in being with this person? That's fine. I have infatuation like emotions that come and go for my boyfriend all of the time, but I know that basically I love him because I choose to, he's a wonderful human being who makes me happy. Sometimes I "feel" nothing for him at all, sometimes I hate him lmao.

@hateocd123 You're not getting what I mean to say. Of course feelings are not concrete, I felt hate, pain and happiness for her as well during my OCD obsession. I don't need to ask anyone about this. I know, I already mentioned the 3 years relation with her. I'm of course interested in that person but I see her as a friend only. OCD made me think that I love her. My love was constant for her because of OCD. I choose her as friend for the time being.