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Past event guilt
I just remembered when I was about 13 and this girl kept posting things about white people being racist and I answered back saying not all white people are like that and asking why she was saying it (I was STUPID and didn't know anything about the world and even though I can't remember it fully it wasn't meant to be malicious or anything) and then she got angry, which is fair, so I got defensive about it and she posted a screenshot on her story. I'm 21 now and definitely more aware of the world. Do I tell my boyfriend about this because I feel like I'm lying to him by not telling him and pretending to be good when I'm not (context I'm white he's not). We talk about race and societal issues all the time so we're both well aware of our political leanings I'm just scared I'm being deceitful and a fraud.