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First session
Tomorrow is my first session and I am feeling extra nervous. My thoughts sometimes make me feel really nuts and I am scared to share them. This is a big step for me.
Tomorrow is my first session and I am feeling extra nervous. My thoughts sometimes make me feel really nuts and I am scared to share them. This is a big step for me.
It took me years to work up the courage to say my thoughts out loud to a therapist, but Iβm SO glad I finally did. It feels like second nature now. You CAN do this!
Same. And to feel vulnerable was super hard for me. But on the other side of it was freedom π so glad I did it even tho it was hard!
You got this β€οΈ it was scary for me too but once I started Iβm so thankful
Youβre not alone. The fear can be a barrier but only if you let it. A good ocd counselor will help you.
Totally understand that feeling. Doing erp was a game changer for me. You've made an awesome decision to start therapy yayπ
@Clairenz Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. What happens in the first session typically?
@Anonymous Mainly assessment is what I remember. It's just an introduction to all of it π
You got this!!! I get the feeling I am having my first session next week after no therapy for almost a year! So u definitely feel very similar. But once you get into it Iβm sure all will go well! Good luck you can do this!
I felt the same way but trust me they have heard EVERYTHING!! Share it so you can get better if you donβt share them you canβt get better!
@πKk123π Thank you so much. I had a recent situation and although this specific type of OCD has been in my life for several years I had a breaking point and I was just like I really need help.
You got this. And donβt be afraid to share openlyβ¦.the therapists know this disease well and have almost certainly heard it or something like it before.
@Overthinking-Overtime Thank you-Sharing openly is so hard and nerve racking because in my mind I feel so alone. π’π’ I don't even want to share openly with my husband out of fear of him thinking wrongly of me. ππππ
@Anonymous You are not alone. An estimated 2-3% of the worldβs population has OCDβ¦.thatβs 150-250 million people! Please share with your therapist so you can get better and use this supportive/non-judgmental community as a resource too.
Also attend some nocd support groups. They are normally quite big so you can just listen and learn π
It shows strength to choose your wellbeing, even if whatβs required for it is hard. This is all the reason to believe that you can handle this! Good luck π
Give yourself a pat on the back for seeking help for yourself! This is a no judgement zone and the therapists are here to help you not to judge you. I felt the same way when I first started therapy. Donβt worry (easier said that done, I know) you got this!
You got this!!! Therapy is truly the first step. Iβm proud of you for making that appointment, one day at time is the secret sauce π
@Anonymous I had my first session and it went awesome!!! I really like my therapist and opened right up to her felt completely supported and non-judged. It truly felt like she understood my experience and was straight and honest with me about what my experience would be during therapy. I already feel a brick off my chest even after my first session. and thank you all for your kind words.
@Steph π You did it! You got this Steph!
Thank you so much for your encouragement.
17f So I don't have an official diagnosis, but I know I have it, I struggle with it since I was 4, I went through like almost every theme like contamination, symmetry, checking, existential, health anxiety, false memory, moral ocd, sexual ocds, and also a therapist told me I have it (another one said I have generalized anxiety disorder but idk like I was talking about textbook ocd to her) I don't have a therapist now therapy is not working out well for me but I was hoping to maybe get medication For me the absolute hell is POCD and real event ocd. I genuinely don't know how do I start. I also think I will replace POCD with harm ocd cause well I'm to scared to talk about POCD. But what do I even say like do I come in and talk about more obvious ocd stuff I experience and then randomly jump to POCD, seems like a crazy jump idk... Also I thought it will be in the evening and I will have time to prepare but it's in and hour and a half I'm terrified Anyone? Help? How do I start what do I say I'm so scared
A few hours ago I had my first ERP session and I am currently feeling nauseous and nervous at the same time. Right after my first exposure I wanted to quit right then and there, but I know I cannot. Does anyone have any tips for sitting with this level of discomfort? Anything is appreciated. Thanks! :-)
Hello everyone, this Monday I have my first therapy session at my school and I was wondering how I can talk about my existential crisis. Iβm extremely nervous. Also, Iβve been trying to train myself so I canβt stop questioning and being afraid of existence. As Iβm writing this it freaks me out. It use to be really bad. I use to cry every night because I was so scared of the afterlife and losing my loved ones. Lately, Iβve been trying to accept reality. But itβs difficult. This whole existence thing scares me. I hate questioning how I got here and what the meaning of life is. Does it get better?
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