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Community discussion: Stopping thought spirals š
Whatās your go-to move when you feel stuck ruminating? Share a tip that helps you step away from the spiral.
Whatās your go-to move when you feel stuck ruminating? Share a tip that helps you step away from the spiral.
My rumination usually stems from past mistakes and wondering what I couldāve done differently. To curb this, I confront the rumination head on and remind myself that this is OCD trying to problem solve and protect me. I give myself a few minutes to just sit with whatever feelings come up as a result of the rumination and remind myself that thereās nothing to figure out. Weāre all human, we all make mistakes, and we can accept that there isnāt always going to be a solution. AND THATāS OKAY. šš» ā¤ļø
@al01 Do you deal with guilt ? If so, how do you deal with it ? :)
@Turky29 Yes, I often deal with immense guilt. When it happens, I aim to recognize that it is just a feeling. & a very normal one at that! A little bit of radical self acceptance goes a long way hereā¦I might say something like, āThe situation was what it was & I accept that I cannot go back in time to fix or change it. Maybe I should feel guilty & or maybe I shouldnāt. I may never know for certain, and thatās okay.ā I also think that when a feeling of guilt arises, itās helpful to say, āThis is OCD trying to fix or solve a problem for me.ā & just trying to be mindful about the person that I want to become and what I truly value! Remember, OCD is the ādoubting disorderā and when we have doubt, weāre inclined to feel guilt & fear. But youāre stronger than you think! Donāt give into the guilty feelings. It never does us any good. š
I'm still trying to figure it out myself.
Doing a crossword puzzle!
Get my body moving
Acknowledge that the original thought is a pattern of OCD. And then confront the thought with āthis thought can be here, but it does not mean anything nor do I have to interact with it.ā Then I move to a different activity
Bringing awareness to the rumination and then trying to do a meditation instead.
Put the screens away and hang out with other people. Connecting socially makes me entirely forget what was making me so stressed out about
I told my therapist that when I get overwhelmed in a thought or a ritual I just wanna scream. So she said do it, just scream, sometimes thatās a good way to break away from the cycle.
i recently learned the 5 4 3 2 1 method, itās good to try! it doesnāt always work for me every time but definitely helps. i also learned to just leave the room i was in. like if im sitting on the couch and cant stop ruminating then i am taught to change my environment, get up and get a glass of water or something.
Watching a good movie
Labeling the thoughts as OCD thoughts and trying my best to let them be there without trying to solve them
Mindfulness- using my 5 senses to notice the present moment around me
Mine is about the future usually and I try to acknowledge it and just move on
A yoga , meditation session along with some cardio . Also listening to podcasts
When Iām caught in a OCD thought spiral I just stop momentarily and remind myself that Iām in the here and now and then look at my surroundings and take note of how my vitals feel. Everything ALWAYS checks out and tells me that OCD is a liar.
write it down !
@LauraBaci7 Thatās a good one š
Telling it to shut up and what ever I think isnāt going to happen or call it a name ,I named mine bingnutš
I often ruminate in order to avoid feeling something I donāt want to feel or a thought that scares or bothers me. I find it helpful to name it and then remind myself to allow it (āallowā has become a bit of a mantra for me). This is basically a truncated version of the RAIN tool (Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture). If your curious, thereās more abt this tool here: https://www.tarabrach.com/rain-practice-radical-compassion/
Recognize the ruminating/compulsive behavior, then do my best to step away. Show myself kindness by saying something like: itās okay, itās just a misstep, we will try again.
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