Hello ?? I’m new here. I’m a mother to a 7 year old boy that has not only been diagnosed with Autism Spectrum, Sensory Integration, ADHD but also OCD. He is afraid or germs, and he’s constantly asking me for reassurance with bad thoughts he is having. From his mind telling him he’s going to hurt me but he doesn’t want to, to telling me his mind is saying he likes boys but he thinks it’s nasty, to constantly repeating things that he did bad years ago that no longer matter even tho he has already told me. Also him saying things that I know didn’t happen but yet he says he’s not sure if it did or if it didn’t happen. To him brushing his teeth and counting. He can brush his teeth now and 2 minutes later I’ll ask him if he brushed his teeth and he will say did you me brush my teeth and if I say no he will say he doesn’t remember and he will go and brush again and again until I say yes I saw you. This is all so overwhelming I don’t know what else to do.

Hi all, I’m coming at this from a different perspective. I’m a parent of a child (boy, age 8) that has OCD. I’m using nOCD as an additional tool to help me help him. I’m learning as much as I can to be able to help him learn to manage this along with meds and therapy.

I got triggered today and spent a big chunk of the day trying to sit with the discomfort. I started to feel better but then I gave in to my compulsions. I think it was about an hour or so of doing it. I’m exhausted now. I feel like I’m going mental. Details below.. skip if you can’t be bothered to read.. I just fixate and struggle with every little thing I see on my son.. like are these white marks on his skin related to the condition I read about. Are these brown marks related? His black hair has browny red through it, so my thoughts were what if these patches turn white per symptoms of this conditions? What if this happens? What if that happens? While he slept I spent the hour combing through his hair trying to see where it was lightening to see how light it is in case it turns white. He has two strands of hair that did this. So my mind connected the dots incorrectly and is running wild thinking more of this will happen thus indicating he has this condition. Anxiety/ocd is about accepting uncertainty but I guess today is just a hard day for me, and this makes me feel hopeless and sad. Could use some advice especially from parents who’ve been through something similar

My ten year old daughter is struggling with really bad OCD mental urges. It’s taking over her every day to day being. She’s unable to walk, or get an object without having to stop and touch things, tap things, open and close. It takes forever to get out of the house and bedtime is a complete nightmare. I try talking to her to help her ignore the urges but nothing is helping. She’s in tears daily saying how she wants it to stop, how she doesn’t want to live this way and wants to just be normal like everyone else. Nothing I try and do to help is working. She fights me saying she can’t stop, the urges are just too strong. I’m trying to be calm and sensitive but I’m losing my mind. I have two other children who it’s effecting too and I’m a single mom trying to navigate this on my own. PLEASE I need help.