Idk what to do

I asked this guy to go watch Christmas lights with me and my family (sister and mom only) he agreed and we were supposed to go Saturday…he canceled, it’s fine ig and blamed it on his mom. I asked if he was busy Tuesday or Monday thinking he was telling the truth. Monday comes and out of no where I get a text, it’s from him and apparently he doesn’t want to go see Christmas lights and asks to do something else. I said of course and we agreed to go see a movie Tuesday. Then he basically asks if his friend and mine can come along as a double date. Mind you we have never gone out alone… Tuesday comes and I literally wait all day for him to text me about it ask me if we’re still going, anything. Nothing ever comes, I get one measly snap. Snap him back and get no response as his snap score goes up by 5. You may wonder why I don’t just text him first if I’m so worried about it, well I do that every single time and I’m so tired of it. I get so mad because I like him so so much, in the past week I’ve been asked out by two guys and rejected them for this 4 month long talking stage. He looks like Jeff Buckley, is smart, funny, loyal, kind, etc. but absolutely horrible at communicating. I’m young and don’t know how to get through to him, it takes time that I quite frankly do not have. All while saying that I keep putting effort and time into this nonexistent relationship because I am so obsessed, he’s never been in a romantic relationship or talking stage before me and only talks to his friends. I full heartedly believe that if he truly likes me then we will work out.