- Date posted
- 8w
Arranged marriage
My parents are making my life hell. They are giving me all those chores and all those restrictions because i refused 2 guys who asked for my hand i am only 20.
My parents are making my life hell. They are giving me all those chores and all those restrictions because i refused 2 guys who asked for my hand i am only 20.
I've been married a long time. You need to choose the right person. Otherwise, in twenty years you well look at your husband and think, "Why did I do that?" You need the right person for you
Tell that to my parents. They are ruining my life. I hate them so much
Hi, I don't know which country you are located in, but at least here in the US they cannot legally force you to marry at the age of 20. I myself have faced pressure from relatives for marrying and having kids but I was probably not treated as bad as you and I was older than you when I was pressured. They still are wanting that but I am firm and have stood up for myself. I'm so sorry :( . I will only do what is best for me and when it's best for me. If they are harming you physically, then you should get help. I suggest you talk to a therapist. I am going to talk to my therapist about this same topic in my upcoming session, actually. I think they will help you deal with this situation. Stay strong <3
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