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- Anonymous
- Date posted
- 6y ago
It could be great exposure. But in all situations if you feel your health is at risk and you have to make the right decision for your health. I’m sure she wouldn’t want to feel like she has to be limited or worry about being herself in her own home either. It’s something that’s usually on our mind outside of our homes. Needs to be a safe space for both of you.
Yes your OCD is going to use it as a trigger but the good news is that you get to decide how to react when it says things to you!!! I would take the apartment if you are in professional ERP therapy. If you’re only doing self counseling maybe this is not the time to try to tackle this challenge.
I am seeking professional help, thankfully! A few months ago I would be over analyzing this over and over again thinking if this is a “sign” form God or not. Now it is VERY minimal analyzing but I’m still worried. I’m currently looking at other places because I need a back up plan. If I can find a better option, I would not take this place. But this is like the exact place I want to be at! I am struggling..
I think that if you want the apartment, go for it. Show OCD that it can try to tell you what to do, but ultimately you are in control. Don’t let it keep you from being happy at an apartment you would definitely go for if OCD wasn’t an issue. It is up to you though, and if you feel uncomfortable you can choose not to live there. But it seems to me like you love the place and I don’t think you should let OCD get in the way of that. Stay strong!
There's no confusion in God and and He will never ever have plans of harming you in any way. You thinking that God is sending you signs that your intrusive thoughts are true is indeed an intrusive thought itself. The reason that happened is because that's your ocd fear. The more you fear a certain obsession the more you will encounter stuff pertaining to it. Use this as exposure. You can do this
I’m so afraid I might be lesbian. I was very anxious at first but it started to calm down. I’m only 15 and I have a boyfriend I love. At least I think I do, I always chose to question everything and over analyze. I found out about hocd and it described everything I was feeling. I’d take test and read articles like “am I lesbian” but I have never fantasied a girl or wanted to be with a girl sexually or romantically. But what if I’m in denial? I do think girls are physically attractive but I never crushed on a girl. I have always crushed on boys. And liked being with them. I’m just so lost. My anxiety about it had calmed down. But the question is still there sometimes. Earlier today, I found a girl pretty and I got scared thinking that meant something. Then I read about women who have married men, but they know they’re lesbian. I’m scared that that’ll Happen to me. I don’t want to be lesbian. No disrespect. But I just want to be happy. I think I’ve suffered from ocd before. Tell me anyone if I’m wrong. But I used to have thoughts of that my boyfriend would murder me in the future because of theses videos that triggered me. It caused me so much pain and felt so real. That I eventually started to think I’d murder my mom and sister for no reason. I felt so helpless. But I got through it. I hope I get through this. Please any advice? Is this hocd?? Does anyone else feel this way?
Okay so I have been struggling with HOCD for so fucking long. I never felt like I had crushes on boys growing up but I wasn’t attracted to girls either (this was through 5th grade). Until 6th grade hit. I remember it like it was yesterday. I had the thought walking up the stairs and it was “You’re lesbian.” And ever since that thought was there and I fought it I have been dealing with all types of OCD ever since (been going on for 7 years). And only this year I found it was OCD. But it’s hard because I don’t know if I’m actually gay or I convinced myself I’m gay because I gave up and gave in. Now whenever I see I pretty girl I feel tingling. And I wanted to prove to myself that I wasn’t a lesbian so I look up pretty pictures of girls with their boobs out and I loved it. And I wanna make out with a girl so intensely. But then at the same I don’t wanna be in a relationship with a girl and I wanna marry a guy and I just desperately wanted to be like by a guy. But I get so horny whenever girls are in bikinis and stuff. But I have OCD and I’m so confused.
I'm a big jumbled mess. The hocd has backed down quite a bit to the point where I was starting to have moments of forgetting and my attraction to guys came back. Here's the issue. I'm a Christian and my boyfriend and I are in an unequally yoked relationship. I feel like to any normal person this wouldn't matter but my OCD moved on to this, picking at it viciously. Of course it makes me sad that we don't have the same view about the existence of God, but it's never bothered me THIS much. Also the fact that we have premarital sex is starting to bother me as well when it never did before. It's killing me. I feel like I can't talk to God anymore. I've been obsessing over it all day. What do I do? I don't want to break up with him. He is my other half. I love him so much. I know this is a really sticky subject. Please no anti religious comments.
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