Any tips for heartbreak?

@Nastenka Thank you for this comment. It really means a lot to me. I’m not sure how to simply walk away with all the love I have in me. This is horrible. How are you feeling? x

@anonymous_purple💜 I understand. I think it’s beautiful for you to have all of this love in you really, to love is to live. I understand it’s a very painful process to walk away, to leave when you still love them and miss them. I don’t know what happend in your situation but I want you to know that it does get better. I promise you it does. My first boyfriend, we dated 6 months, I was massively in love with him and when we split it burnt. But it got better and now I’m more or less indifferent even when at the time, it took me longer than a year to get over him. OCD can make rumminating about these things much more painful and I’m proud of you for sharing your story and coming out here. I promise things get better and it won’t be this painful in a few months time. Also thank you for checking up on me. I’m also feeling a bit better even though I’m sad about everything but I have faith that we will both feel better within a few months time. You got this. Feeling guilt is natural but for heartbreak, really please just delete the photos and messages. Don’t keep them with you.

@recoveryisneverlinear I’ll never get used to breakups. So damn shattering everytime. Do you have any tips? I’m also letting guilt consume me

@ezzieorsomething Thank you so much for replying, it means the world to me. Right now I’m feeling too terrible and I don’t even feel like doing anything. Everyone I’ve talked to told me that it’ll pass and that it’s not the end of the world. I know it, but I just love them too much :(

@anonymous_purple💜 yeah, that's understandable. I don't blame you one bit. I only suggested distractions so you don't get on a rumination track of all the things you should have done differently or something where you get into a mindframe of self-blame. and as for the other advice, i mean, i get where they are coming from and it is well-intentioned but "it will pass" is sort of dismissive (to me). it's easy for them to say because they aren't the ones feeling it :/ when people say stuff like that to me i get agitated. i'm like thanks for nothing? that has nothing to do with how i feel right now. it just sucks.

@ezzieorsomething I guess that I also feel like I can’t take heartbreak because of everything that’s going on my mind right now. I’m so incredibly overwhelmed.

@recoveryisneverlinear I’ve went through these kind of situations before but I feel like this one is different. I just simply can’t imagine life without them :(

@anonymous_purple💜 I totally get that and that’s totally normal because it’s something you’re actively experiencing right now. That’s why it’s so fresh it’s causing so much pain. I know it doesn’t help but everyone saying that it will pass is very right. I remember thinking I would never feel better after my break ups, but I always have. Sending support.❤️‍🩹

@recoveryisneverlinear Time does heal everything, but while that happens, I feel like I won’t be able to keep up with the pain for much longer. Thanks for your kind words ^^

@anonymous_purple💜 You can do things you wouldn’t imagine. You are so much stronger than you think and feel right now ❤️

@recoveryisneverlinear This means the world to me. Thank you…

@anonymous_purple💜 Hope you start to feel better day by day 🫶

@Anonymous Thank you so much for your kind words. It helps to read that other people went through this and they could make it. But I simply feel like I can’t take it xx

@MK97 Hi there, I’m so sorry to read that you went through this, i’ll be here if you want to talk about it. I’m not on medication because I couldn’t access therapy as of now. Tomorrow I’ll be looking for a therapist though :). Thank you so much for the prayers, it means the world to me. I’m desperate